AND we need to stop having radfem ideals as the main feminist movement. not only do they often believe this, they also PUSH it as what men will ALWAYS do
radfeminism is no longer about the patriarchy, its about hating men.
radfems often just became or already are sexist, transphobic, and homophobic.
ive seen radfems say that “all men” are the same which INCLUDE CHILDREN!! a CHILD showed signs of sexual abuse but they didnt care BECAUSE it was a male child who went to a female child and pulled her head to his crotch and said “suck”
NO TODDLER WILL DO THAT UNLESS THEY WERE TAUGHT TO AKA SEXUAL. ABUSE.
and radfems OFTEN do and say stuff that tell men that it is completely fine for them to do what they expect all men to do (the crimes that men are statistically more likely to do) which then tells women that they should expect it from them (which then can become victim blaming or even accepting abuse since its “expected”)
the “all men” ideology* is harmful and actively tells men and young boys that it is in their blood and biology to BE harmful people.
one thing people often say (that i agree with) is that we need to stop teaching women to accept abuse from men/defending them and to teach men to stop being abusive. the radfem ideology doesnt do that. it actively tells men that they WILL act that way since its what they always do. it actively HARMS that ideology
*this does not include the “all men” when it comes to randomly in the street, in public, etc. the ideology that you do not know that person therefore they may harm you IS valid. it ISNT valid to say that every man HAVE TO / WILL act a certain way as it tells young boys that they WILL act that way therefore telling them that it is completely fine to act that way. it is just a rebrand of “boys will be boys”
not only that, what about trans people?
do trans men count towards the “not all men” (according to them, it doesnt lmao)
then when you ask them why it often has to do with the fact that we are trans.
if you have to bring up someones PAST identity, the identity they NO LONGER IDENTIFY AS to defend WHY you dont include them in you ideology that has to do with the gender they currently are, then you dont see them as their current identity, only the previous one
as much as i would love to bring up issues that trans women deal with due to radfeminism, i have no clue how to bring it into the conversation as im not a trans women and, due to shitty memory, only remember my own experiences as a trans man when it comes to radfemisim. the og post i reblogged has a wonderful comment speaking on the fact that this also is trans misogyny as it claims that AMABs will always act a certain way, so does it apply to trans women?
again, radfeminism is just transphobia and sexism masked as feminism
it harms everyone. women especially. its essentially telling them that they should expect and accept abuse from men since “it’s what they do”
also, if any radfems see this, im blocking you lmao
this isnt a discussion, argument, etc. between us. i do not care what you have to say
only saying this because ive see a radfem before try to defend themselves in a post talking about the harm of the ideology as a trans man
people gotta stop acting like every single thing a man does is sexually motivated. it's not helping the men who do focus on making things sexually oriented that shouldn't be grow past the behavior. we gotta stop equating every single thing men do to somehow having to do with sex on some level. this is profiling whether or not we want to admit it, and it IS making the problem worse, because it REINFORCES this behavior in men who DO act like this. challenge the notion that all men care about is sex, not reinforce it. all you're doing is being absolutely fucking nasty, and you're especially walking all over sex repulsed men, asexual spectrum men, and men who have sexual trauma.
guys im actually scared lmao theres so many plane crashes lately im going on one today
its from ny to kingston jamaica
if we crash just know i fucking hate elon and trump and im happy that i came out before my death 🫡
then im also worried about my moms flight since shes going on friday
i dont care if my plane crashes, i dont care about dying. i dont want my mom to die.
Hi everyone! I'm Mouse!
Some of you may recognize me from the trans deer centaur comic I made on here a few years ago. (As seen below)
While most of you still probably don't know me at all- and that's okay!
I'm hoping to bring a lot of art and good vibes to the community here. So, having said that- welcome to my cottage! Sit down, stay awhile, grab a blanket and a cozy drink while I tell you a story and show you my art ^^
pictures of the pretty girl :)
i need to interact with more happy things. its the reason why i joined tumblr and stepped away from twitter.
my TL is just.. negative.
might purge a bunch of posts
dude i cannot wait till i pass
i cannot wait till i look more masc and androgynous
i cannot wait till i look like how i want
i keep getting recommended posts by transfems and their journey and them passing im so jealous and happy for them theyre so happy they pass so well theyre so pretty i cant WAIT FOR THAT ERA OF MY TRANSITION WHERE I JUST AM SO PROUD AND OUT AND HAPPY AND POSTING ABOUT IT
I’ve seen it too many times. It’s incredibly annoying now so I can’t just say nothing.
When someone calls out transandrophobia, anti-transmasculinity, whatever you’re inclined to call it, and the person who did it is a trans man or transmasc themselves? I need you to understand how deeply irrelevant that is.
Sometimes what you said was just harmful no matter who you are while saying it. Being part of the group being harmed doesn’t tell me that what you said was okay. It tells me you’ll throw yourself and the rest of your own community under the bus for a scrap of approval from the people who want you and everyone like you to get hit by a bus. I don’t know why you expect me not to either be more pissed off or just start to pity you.
“But I’m transmasc” cool so am I, now can we go back to talking about how fucked up it is for you to say what you just said?
it genuinely disgusts me with the amount of hate that tmen/mascs go through in the QUEER COMMUNITY
so many in the same community that claims to be accepting just hate on us
trans men/mascs are so villainized and forgotten within the trans community and for what?
and the thing is,
the way they often hate on us is the *exact* way homophobes and transphobes act
i once saw a tweet saying that trans men aren’t minorities and benefit from the patriarchy COMING FROM ANOTHER TRANS PERSON
its almost as they forget that the same way that cis people dont see them as their gender ALSO DONT SEE AS AS OURS
its almost as they forget that some of us have uteruses and are currently being affected by the political climate that tr🤡mp and red states are doing to remove abortions and things that generally protect us
just because you believe that every fucking trans man thats comfortable saying afab is a theyfab doesnt give you the fucking right to be a dickhead
plus, youre wrong too LMAO
there are certain situations where someone may use their agab acronym to explain something because, SHOCKER, some people dont KNOW a better term to use that outright explains what they mean
ie: ME. when I didnt know what to use/say, i used to mention my agab!!! now that i KNOW what to say (i was raised as a woman), i dont fucking treat others like shit for NOT SAYING THE SAME THING
this isnt the fucking oppression olympics, its being aware of the things that trans people go through and being THERE FOR THEM
NOT devaluing their experiences AND the current things they may go through just fucking because theyre a man
you arent apart of the LGBTQ+ with the rest of us if you invalidate ANY of the letters. INCLUDING TRANS PEOPLE
INCLUDING SUB GENRES OF TRANS PEOPLE (ie: tfem, tmasc, nonbi, agender, genderfluid, etc)
like anyone who does this fucking sucks
genuinely
youre a shitty person if you treat another trans person like shit just because you don’t understand them
because that’s exactly like how transphobes act LMAOO
people who think that transfems are inherently "unsafe" around transmascs and that transmascs are a "threat" to transfems:
are t4t transhet transfems a joke to you?
are t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasc family members a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine children a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine friends a joke to you?
you HAVE to acknowledge we exist. you can't keep pretending we don't.
i don't know how else to break it to you that there are many, many transfems who love transmascs for a lot of different reasons, but if you seriously can't take a second to consider how you're hurting a ton of transfems by shitting on transmascs, i really have no other words for you. care about the transfems who love transmascs. we exist. stop pretending we don't. we are out here and and the transmascs we love don't deserve to feel like shit. it doesn't empower transfems to make them and the transmascs they love feel like shit. stop this.
chat this is my first day ever doing an am shift (7a-3a) and while running to my lyft bc i didnt want to be late, i fucking ate shit and FELL
thank god my house is on a hill and no one saw me 😭
good morning ig 💀
dude i want to take out my hair and wear my fro i wanna look more masc 💔💔
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