Last Year I Was Contacted And Commissioned To Make A Bunch Of Illustrations For A Card Game Which Is

found the next spiderman

so i was having some Deep Thoughts in the shower earlier (because who doesn’t have Deep Thoughts in the shower?) and i kind of figured out why the word “genius” bothers me so much. aside from being a ridiculously elitist word, it’s inaccurate. and it’s misleading.

when i was a kid, i read a lot - and i really mean a lot. in the bath, on the bus, after lights out, under the desk at school, everywhere. as a result, i developed literacy skills a lot earlier than most of my peers. and as a result of that, i was told constantly that i was “gifted” - put into special classes, sent to child psychologists, allowed to read books instead of doing actual homework, all the rest of it.

and it fucked me up.

why? because in the end, i really wasn’t all that gifted. i was an average kid who just happened to be an early developer. so when i went to senior school, it was a massive blow. not only had the people around me caught up to me (and in most cases, surpassed me) but but i’d gone from being a big fish in a small pond to a medium-sized fush in a fucking enormous pond. additionally, because i’d spent my whole life thus far being told that i was Naturally Smart, i’d never actually learned how to do any work. i’d never needed to.

as a result, my grades plummeted. i developed anxiety. i procrastinated endlessly out of fear of not being “perfect”. i was stuck in this weird place where i desperately needed to be better than everyone else, but actually having to revise and study felt like a kind of weakness. i’d lost the one thing that made me special. it wasn’t enough to be sort-of good at stuff - i had to be the best. and because that clearly wasn’t ever going to be possible, i just stopped trying.

hundreds of kids go through this. hundreds of kids are told they are geniuses, prodigies, gifted, and so on, just because they can do certain things that their peers can’t. and it’s bullshit, because, ultimately, there is no such thing as a “genius”. or rather there is, but it’s not a noun - it’s an adjective. (for example, you can be a genius at cooking, or at writing poetry, or at debating a point.) there are people who have excellent logical and critical thinking skills, which bumps up scores on an iq test (another grossly inaccurate way of measuring intelligence), but who can’t write an essay to save their lives. there are people who can successfully argue their way out of any situation and write a kickass final paper, but can barely do their times tables. these are skill sets. the word genius has become an almost mythical term - a separate class of beings who can do incredible, inexplicable things like multiplying four-digit numbers in their heads or solving rubik’s cubes in the time it takes to fry an egg. sure, these are pretty cool talents, but why should possessing them automatically elevate the person to a higher level than the rest of us? why are they more respected than being hardworking, or kindhearted?

so here’s a concept: let’s stop praising kids for the stuff that they’re naturally good at, and start praising them for what they aren’t. praise them for working hard. or for getting a good mark in a subject they hate. teach them that it’s okay to not be good at stuff, so long as you try. because - and i wish my parents had told me this when i was younger - intelligence really isn’t everything.

Thank god for Russian dash cams to bring us wonders like this

Cast of avengers when they were young

There seems to be this widely perceived notion that authors agree with everything they have their main protagonist say and do. I was just wondering if you knew where how this came about, seeing as you and hazel grace are so obviously the same exact person.

Well, authors invite this—or at least authors like me do, by putting so much of our personal selves online and engaging in conversations outside stories, so it’s a little unfair to be like, “Follow me on tumblr and twitter and youtube and instagram, but NEVER TRY TO FIND MY INSIDE MY NOVELS.” As a reader, I find it impossible to ignore the author when they’re someone I know, whether online or off.

Also, we live in a quote culture: We see quotes all day across the Internet, and those quotes almost never come with real context. Like, the protagonist of Katherines says, “What’s the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable?” Now, I don’t think that’s a problematic approach to life, and I hope during the course of the novel Colin comes around to the idea that there’s great meaning and joy in the so-called unremarkable life. (As if anything on this planet overflowing with life is unremarkable.) But as I get older, I find myself less and less annoyed about the inevitable decontextualization that accompanies quotation. If people find something useful, okay. 

It’s so very hard to separate yourself as a person from your work, no matter what kind of work you do. (e.g.: As a high school student, I was disengaged and sloppy with occasional moments of promise, which to me meant that as a person I was disengaged and sloppy with moments of promise. But really, who you are in your job or education is not exactly who you are.) But I am not my work. It is up to other people, if they are so kind as to read and watch the stuff I make, to judge its quality and/or usefulness. The core things I am—a husband, a father, a brother, a son, a nerdfighter, a friend, etc.—are not dependent on my books being any good. Thank God for that.

I don’t think I answered your question. Sorry. The only answer I have to your question is that I believe books belong to their readers.

for those nights when you cant stop thinking about her……….

I think people often underestimate the potential educational value of senseless memes. For example, thanks to Spiders Georg, literally every teenager on Tumblr has a reasonable grasp of what a statistical outlier is and the sorts of problems that outliers can introduce into a naïve analysis. There are grown adults who don’t get that - I deal with them on a daily basis.

all you cisphobes need to sit the fudge down

the “down with cis” bus assault is REAL and the horrible event was caught. on. film. you sjws need to stop spreading hate and cis prejudice because this is getting out of control!! hate breeds more hate and innocent people get hurt!