What The Fuck This Is Next Level Shit

The first plant to become a venus fly trap

what is the coolest rock you have?

probably one of these but i dont know what kind they are

Draw the three banes of creativity; Perfectionism, procrastination, and self-doubt.

when your mom makes you pose for a picture

Ya but don't you ever worry that knowledge of social justice might make dangerous men appear safe, without changing them fundamentally? Like I agree that some men mostly don't know any better, and only need to be taught, but how do we teach in a way that elicits real change -- as opposed to only teaching them to avoid obviously offensive behaviors, and thereby obscuring their deeper misogyny? -diff anon

You mean how can we avoid men using progressive/feminist rhetoric as a tool to manipulate and bait women?

For me personally, it has to come in how I teach what I know. If I say “Never tell a woman she’s a bitch. It makes women mad.” It’s easy to use that to lure a woman into thinking you’re progressive. That shit is simple and easy.

A lot of what I think I tell my male friends deal not with simplistic, overarching acts, but with mindsets. I friend once who said all women are crazy and illogical. I could’ve said “Don’t say that! All women are queens!” And he could’ve repeated that verbatim and seemed reasonably safe to some women. But instead, I told him that he was taking his anger on one woman out against all women. That’s not something he can use to manipulate a woman, because it deals chiefly with him.

That’s just one example off the top of my head, but I guess my general answer is that I’ll try to educate my male friends at deeper, more personal levels.

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I am so confused by this car owner’s choice of tail light mods via Shitty_Car_Mods

Once upon a time I worked in this little burger/coffee/ice cream shop and a lady came in one winter and asked if we had a caramel apple drink and we were like ‘well we have cider’ and she was like ‘no I don’t remember what it’s called but this place made a drink that was chai tea, apple cider, and caramel’ and Breezy offered to try and make something for her but she changed her mind and left so Breezy and I were like ‘alright let’s try this’ because we had chai tea, instant cider mix, a shit ton of caramel, instant hot water from the espresso and too much free time. 

And let me tell you it was delightful. It tastes like watching the leaves changing color and dancing in the wind. It tastes like picking out pumpkins and gourds and fresh apples at the farm up north. It tastes like witches and freedom.

I make it every year now and this year I walked in the house on the morning of October first with all the ingredients and shouted ‘FALL DRINK’ and my roommates were like ‘????’ so I made them Fall Drink and now every time they get home from work they’re like ‘Fall Drink pls?????’

Anyway I remember literally nothing else about that woman but I’m very grateful to her. 

“drama kid” this and “band kid” that. wheres the love for us kids that did absolutely nothing in high school