July TC Challenge

Firstly, sorry for how deadly silent I’ve been. A lot has happened and there was a period of time I wasn’t really feeling my tc BUT ever since I saw him not too long ago during qrntn (my school re-opened) things have changed haha. For better or worse idk??

Also because I’m kinda late here are the answers for the first six days :))

1. What was your first impression of your tc?

This is going to be really hard to explain without going in depth about how I first met him. But to explain it briefly he came off as a very bold, friendly person ofc he was gorgeous too. But he also seemed like one of those teachers who’s genuinely invested in their students which was nice because I haven’t had many of those :)

2. Is your tc single or taken? or are you unsure? and are you single or taken?

I’m pretty sure he’s taken and that his gf is another teacher. They arrive at and leave school together. I’ve seen them twice now. Around twice before qrntn and once more during the time lockdown was kind of lifted and I was at school. Which obviously means they were like together during qrntn because no mixing with other households (as we knoW). Also some of my friends have seen him and her together at other times as well haha. Eventhough reason would suggest he’s taken it’s not something I know for sure. So maybe he just has a female roommate?? Haha okay no. That sounds stupid.

3. How long have you had feelings for them, and what made you realize that you did?

I’m not sure tbh towards the start I definitely did but then it kinda started to be an on and off thing (hence my absence on here). I realised I did when I started to really care about what they had to say about my work and I started to care about how I was coming across to them. It was also when I started having conversations with them outside of the classroom that I really gained some insight on what he’s like as a person rather than just a teacher yk??

4. Have you kept in touch with them during quarantine/online learning?

During online learning I was kinda slacking off so no BUT THEN my school reopened and when I went in and had him for actual lessons it was fucking great. And I actually ended up having a really good conversation with him during the middle of the week in his office. I wasn’t supposed to see him but he wanted to give me back a grade or something and asked me to like come in - so I did. And then he kinda like turned it into a conversation but yeh the energy was gooood.

5. Is your tc more of the athletic type, the nerdy type or the artsy type?

Athletic type! As well as being an English teacher he’s also a coach for one of the sports teams at my school. I’ve seen him a couple of times because of that near the school field or lugging around sports gear haha.

Also he’s definitely nerdy about his subject. He loves to use big words that no one understands and we have to get him to give the definition of and he just seems like a very learned person haha

6. If you and your tc were in high school together, do you think you’d be friends?

That’s a really good question and the truth is idk. We’re quite similar but we’re also quite different. We’d probably be taking the same subjects and playing the same sports so I’d at the very least be acquaintances with him but friends? Ns. Maybe a better answer is I don’t see why we wouldn’t be :)

I got these questions from @baeby-tc and @sheisthesweetest-tc . Then I kinda mixed and matched them like @honeydewloveme :)

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infatuated-tc

4 years ago

I just hope that his wife and his kids will always love him unconditionally. Because he deserves to be happy.

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infatuated-tc

5 years ago

Not to be extremely NSFW but please hug me for a really long time

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infatuated-tc

4 years ago

I've never had a TC account but as someone that was in the community for 3ish years,,, here are some things I'd like to share after now being about 4 months out of highschool

-If you see those posts about watching out for red flags, how older men shouldn't be friends with teenage girls and how they should Definitely never persue relationships with them and your first thought is "not me, I'm just mature for my age, it's fine if I do it and I can handle myself" I was you for years. As soon as things start to get iffy, get out fast. Grooming is very real, and a lot of older people do use their power positions to manipulate younger people. You could very well have a healthy, mentor like relationship with your TC, but know where the lines are and when they're being crossed.

-it is completely normal for younger people to take an interest in older people, especially ones in power positions over them. It is the adult's job to never entertain that idea. (Not that you should Ever persue a much older adult as a minor though, you do have some responsibility but victims of grooming are victims and are more than valid)

-Learn! The! Signs! Of! Grooming!! If you are ever uncomfortable or feel as though you're being perceived by your TC in a way that makes you uncomfortable or just not feel right, don't brush it off. Set your boundaries and avoid that situation as much as possible after boundaries are crossed.

-It's okay to feel uncomfortable. I know a lot of people on here talk about how much they would love more or a certain type of attention from their TC, but if you're in that spot, don't let anyone make you think you have to be grateful for it, even and especially if it makes you feel wrong/uncomfortable/violated in any type of way

-I'll add more if I think of anything else, and feel free to comment anything along these lines I missed. More than anything, keep yourself safe. Your health and safety come before anything else, even their job or reputation if it gets to that point. Whatever you're feeling IS valid.

My asks and DMs are always open for anyone that needs it. I hate that I have to look back at highschool and have it laced with memories that now make me feel sick to my stomach knowing those moments weren't what I thought they were and it's hard to not have anyone to talk to about it because no one knew, but that also means I have no room to judge or blame anyone in the same spot. Just stay safe guys ❣️