“i Can’t Transition Because It Would Ruin My Life In My Current Relationship/job/etc” Idk It Sounds

“i can’t transition because it would ruin my life in my current relationship/job/etc” idk it sounds like your life already sucks. why not ruin it into something better? something you love?

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9 months ago
Something Apocalyptic Is Going On Behind The Scenes Of The Trump Campaign I Truly Think Donald’s Stupid
Something Apocalyptic Is Going On Behind The Scenes Of The Trump Campaign I Truly Think Donald’s Stupid

something apocalyptic is going on behind the scenes of the trump campaign i truly think donald’s stupid chud sons doomed him by pushing for Vance

4 months ago

Kind of a hot take but i dont think we can solve the issue of marginalized people being treated like children without asking ourselves why we treat children like subhuman objects incapable of thinking and undeserving of autonomy

11 months ago

how to look like an old fashioned romantic tall young italian boy as a 5 foot transgender afro latino long curly haired teenager with the body proportions of that one genderweird shapeshifter from the movie on Netflix and the hips of a mother with 5 kids spacebar enter search

5 months ago
Lou Sullivan's Books For Free! 🏳️‍⚧️💜
Lou Sullivan's Books For Free! 🏳️‍⚧️💜
Lou Sullivan's Books For Free! 🏳️‍⚧️💜
Lou Sullivan's Books For Free! 🏳️‍⚧️💜

Lou Sullivan's books for free! 🏳️‍⚧️💜

1. Information For The Female To Male Cross Dresser And Transsexual, 3rd Edition

2. We Both Laughed In Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan 1961-1991

3. From Female to Male: The Life of Jack Bee Garland

1 year ago
Cultural feminism is arguably the worst strand of feminism, but unfortunately it's everywhere.

In Whipping Girl, I describe it as being
invested in oppositional sexism but flipping traditional sexism, such that women are now deemed inherently "good" and "pure," and men inherently "oppressive" and "dangerous."

Cultural feminism forms the backbone of "gender critical"/TERF ideology, but it also informs mainstream feminism, for instance, in the idea that there would be no violence or other societal ills if female politicians ran the government, or if every company had a female CEO, and so on. It's extremely anti-intersectional. And it's obviously bullshit, as many women commit acts of violence and act oppressively toward other marginalize groups.

But it's popular because it's simple and it paints cis women as victims who are entirely free of any culpability.

- Julia Serano

This is so important for every trans person & ally to learn. I remember when I first made this blog, I accidentally reblogged a TERF post every once in a while and didn't realize it at all until ppl started making me aware. In hindsight, the issue wasn't that I wasn't well-informed about terf dogwhistles or that I didn't have enough of them blocked, although that was a big part of it, it was because I wasn't taking all forms of sexism equally seriously. If you on some level believe that women are purer & safer & better people than men, that male sexuality is scary & predatory or that one can be "tainted" by masculinity, you're going to be an easier target for TERFs.

It's so important that we as trans & queer people approach this "cultural feminism" as Serano calls it with zero tolerance. Only that way we can keep our spaces safe & welcoming for everyone & give TERFs no chance.

The only way out of this, as far as I can see, is for us as a trans community to explicitly (and loudly) reject cultural feminism—both its essentialism and its zero-sum conceptualization of gender-based oppression. If we did this, then we could all openly discuss our experiences with oppositional and traditional sexism (and the intersection thereof) without other trans people presuming that we’re implying that they have not been impacted by these forces—or worse, that they must be one of our “oppressors.”

10 months ago

insanely hot take but cisallohet society is actually insanely perveted. ur gonna tell me that you're gonna look at my genitals as soon as I'm born and then slot me into one of two boxes, which i have to follow to a t, so that everyone knows what junk i've got, i am not allowed to do or be anything else?? and if the 50% chance goes wrong i'll be slotted into a box where the only thing that matters is how fuckable i (and my genitals) am to the other box. ur gonna tell me that its totally normal and natural to have to flaunt my genitals and for the set that i've got to completely rule my life??

and *i* am the twisted perveted freak bc i don't wanna do that? get fucking real.

2 months ago

having a cyclical mental illness really does feel like being the world's most dogshit necromancer reanimating the same corpse every few months

6 months ago

people refusing to accept pre or never transition, "loud", dominant, assertive, gender non conforming, and even masculine trans women because they're a "threat" to you... i see you, only wanting to accept trans women if we take up as little space as possible. we can see right through you

1 year ago

Transmasculine experiences in sex work are often rendered invisible, so let's share them! Reblog to help get more eyes on this, so we can fundraise enough to pay all the contributors.

The Kickstarter for Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology is now live.

If you're curious about trans people who do sex work, read about what will be included in the book and get yourself a copy:

Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology
Kickstarter
Read about the experiences of transgender men and transmasculine people in sex work, in their own words.
Transmasculine Experiences In Sex Work Are Often Rendered Invisible, So Let's Share Them! Reblog To Help
Transmasculine Experiences In Sex Work Are Often Rendered Invisible, So Let's Share Them! Reblog To Help
Transmasculine Experiences In Sex Work Are Often Rendered Invisible, So Let's Share Them! Reblog To Help
Transmasculine Experiences In Sex Work Are Often Rendered Invisible, So Let's Share Them! Reblog To Help
Transmasculine Experiences In Sex Work Are Often Rendered Invisible, So Let's Share Them! Reblog To Help
5 months ago

the edit itself

this edit is getting taken down from tiktok every time someone reuploads it, its straight up censorship at this point

Im not even american but im having a great time with this

DONT LET THIS DIE

credit to miraculousgastropod for the original

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ilyanposting - you just gotta keep livin man
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