I Love It When People Tell Me About Me Because I Have No Idea Who I Am

15 things to remember:

1.   that thing you did that was kind of embarrassing and weird, everyone else forgot about that already

2.   you look fine today, if you can’t notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody else will either.

3.   social lives can go through cycles sometimes, if you feel like your friends are all ignoring you for no reason they’re probably just busy with other things.

4.   if you can’t stop thinking about someone or something, read a book, paint your nails or watch a movie. it won’t solve any serious problems but you will feel better.

5.   listen with the intent to understand, not the intent to reply.

6.   if you want something, go get it. 

7.   drink lots of water, eat lots of fruit, exercise more, go outside, get enough sleep and think positive thoughts.

8.   if you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.

9.   throw away the idea of a perfect tomorrow and live in the moment.

10.  stop comparing yourself to others.

11.  a beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. It’s a privilege to simply be alive and healthy. Start acting like life is a blessing.

12.  act the way you’d like to be and soon you’ll be the way you’d like to act.

13.  you will change. You’re not the same person you were three years ago. you’re not even the same person you were three minutes ago and that’s okay. especially if you don’t like the person you were three minutes ago.

14.  you don’t have to open the curtains if you don’t want to.

15.  being happy is the most important thing.

2020 masterlist: themes

fic rec list masterpost

The Official List of Lists of Our Lists:

docxrose fanfic 101 | tropes | themes | episodes | hullabaloo | au

THEME CATEGORIES BELOW:

angst | babies & families | doctor-related themes |  fandom & literary notes

fluff | history & mythology | humor | hurt/comfort |  reunion!fic

this ship sails forever  |  trouble in paradise  |  rose-related themes

NOTE: Lists in italic are in planning stages and have not yet been posted.

       ANGST

happy ending

sad ending

very sad ending and/or character death

au angst

      REUNION!FIC

reunions (ten x rose)

rose gets back to the doctor after tentoo dies

the doctor visits tentoo and rose

the doctor goes into rose’s past post-doomsday

post-journey’s end reunions

       THIS SHIP SAILS FOREVER

soulmates

telepathic bonding

weddings/proposals

slow burn

day after day

       TROUBLE IN PARADISE

arguments

cheating

       BABIES & FAMILY

nine x rose

ten x rose

tentoo x rose

rose was pregnant in doomsday

pregnancy/birth

generations

   FLUFF

nine x rose

ten x rose

tentoo x rose

roses & flowers

   HUMOR/CRACK!FIC

nine x rose

ten x rose

tentoo x rose

multi-era

   HURT/COMFORT

illness or injury

whump

mental illness

nightmares: nine x rose

nightmares: ten or tentoo x rose

emotional h/c

drowning

period pain

the doctor thinks rose is dead

scars

   HISTORY & MYTHOLOGY

historical: regency (not au)

mythology

western

   FANDOM & LITERARY NOTES

beautiful fic

buried treasure

controversial fics/themes

crossovers

letters/epistolary & social media fics

five times fic

second person/outsider pov

     DOCTOR-RELATED THEMES

dark!doctor

the doctor’s past & gallifrey

fem!doctor

nine meets ten

nine is tentoo

ten is tentoo

regeneration

    ROSE-RELATED THEMES

jimmy stone

rose as a child

rose’s friends

some underrated things/scenes or things people forget

so i was reading carry on for the 83728181th time and came across a bunch of extremely underrated scenes or things people forget.

- ebb literally thought simon and baz were dating, or at the most, friends.

- penny wears actual capes because she says it make her feel like stevie nicks

- baz tried to wank away his feelings for simon over their fifth year summer

- lucy is a ghost during the book, because she states in one of her characters that she was caught between life and full death

- the library scene

- baz trusted simon enough to let him eat in front of him.

- simon has speech issues

- simon is queer. his sexuality was never stated during the book, he just said that he thinks he might be gay, but his therapist said he doesn’t even need to think about it.

- the epilouge scene

- penny and baz made simon carry up all the furniture into simon and penny’s apartment despite simon being the one with no magic

- pumpkin mocha breeve

- simon thinks he killed the mage, but it wasn’t his or penny’s fault, he said “stop it, stop hurting me” and the magic deemed it the only way or the mage to stop hurting him

- penny’s sister stayed up until 4am in christmas eve

- some idiot named marcus from the old families got trapped in fucking dumbwaiter in their fourth year

- penny is number 2. on simon’s ‘what i miss most about watford’ list

- they do their own laundry and dishes at watford.

- the floor between the second and third floor, the ‘echo’ floor, that imitates everything that happens on the floor above, a day later.

- “i know it’s distasteful, but imagine—you’re a pixie, and you have a daughter, you name her trixie. trixie the pixie.” … “ thats like a fairy named mary,” “or a vampire named gampire.”

- agatha though that lucy salisbury looked like baby spice

- this book has a fucking lesbian pixie

- simon thinks baz looks like gangster when he slicks his hair back

- simon sleeps with the windows open all year round

that’s all i could think of and find, thanks for reading. please add any more if you can think of them.

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Ps. Seungkwan did so well in this duet.

Zillenial things

Being young enough for Minecraft but too old for Fortnite

Being alive for 9/11 but not remembering it at all cuz you were like 2

Seeing reruns of 90s shows when you were really little but being to young to really remember them

Feeling betrayed by Butch Hartman

Listening to the bops of ~2009-2012 in middle school gym class

Growing up through the transition from clunky PCs for nerds and flip phones to smartphones and sleek and easy laptops

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Being called a millenial by baby boomers and Gen Z by millenials

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