The Seven Deadly Partners

The Seven Deadly Partners

I am by no means trying to tell you what you should and should not do, nor am I aiming to police the internet. If you’re comfortable with some of the following, that’s fine but this is a list based on my own personal experiences and what I have learned from them and it’s to help as a warning to those who might not know what to look out for as they’re new to RPing.

((If you choose to reblog this post for others to see you may do so only on the condition that you do not tag or mention anyone who you feel is one of these partners. This is not a call out freebee, that’s not what this post is for!))

1. Possessive Obsessive

    These are Partners who become easily jealous when your muse interacts with other muses. They don’t like the idea that your blog is a multiverse/ship blog because theirs is not or whatever reason they give for it. They might even go as far as to contact others anonymously to tell them to leave you alone without even consulting you first. Some of these parters appear to become upset or aggressive when you don’t know everything about their muse or you refuse a plot suggestion from them. They will try to isolate you in such a way that you are only able to write with them.

2. Guilt Tripper

   Those that don’t like what has happened in a thread or that you’re writing with someone they don’t like and then threaten to leave the site if things don’t change. That it would be your fault if anything happens to them or their blog, even threats to alter their muses relationship with yours. This is an attempt to control how and who you interact with. This is manipulative behaviour and should not be stood for.

3. The ‘Game Master’ 

   These partners are those that come up with the plots only they control everything in the plot, your muse isn’t allowed to actually be your muse because it effects their muse or their plot. In the end you must consider if you are writing your muse or if you are writing an NPC for them. You owe these people nothing you don’t want to give, no matter how controlling or guilt tripping they then become when you confront them.

4. The Stifler 

    Similar to the Game Masters, these partners smother your muse with threads but every single one of them is centred around the needs of their muse and not yours. While their muse grows and develops, there’s no breathing room for yours to do the same. You burn yourself out in keeping up with their threads but don’t feel like you or your muse are getting anything in return.

5. The Stalker 

   They ask for all of your URLs and it can be quite flattering, only they become annoyed if they find another blog of yours elsewhere you haven’t mentioned, or that you don’t interact with them through a certain muse of yours. These people might just be excited and eager to write with you but they have no right to expect you to do so on any of your blogs.

6. The Victim

   This one always, always plays the victim ooc. Whatever you do that they don’t agree with suddenly turns into vague blogging, sending anonymous messages, setting their friends on you or blatantly ignoring you in the IMs. It turns into a public call out post in which they expect their followers to side with them no matter what and deny you the chance to explain your side of the situation, yet they do not block or unfollow you, wanting to see the chaos play out. When eventually reasoned with, this usually results in a sob story from them in order to get your supposed forgiveness and as if you might return to everything as normal… beware the apparent victim.

7. The Bleeder

   These are the partners who blend whatever is happening in character into out of character things. Sometimes it is just a one off and many, many people have done it in the past, but when it keeps happening there should be red flags and warning bells ringing. If your partner cannot differentiate between OOC and IC expect considerable drama!

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6 years ago

i want to write relationships that are complicated.

i want to write the on-again-off-again relationships. i want the screaming matches and the cancelled dates and the hurt feelings and the second guesses and second chances. 

i want to write people who completely shake up each other’s daily routine and flip their entire world on its axis. i want them to drive each other crazy and question why they bother sticking around and then remember the way their partner laughs or see them in a moment of vulnerability that tells them ‘this is is why i stay. this is why i love you.' 

i want to write relationships with struggles. with class differences and financial divide. two people who are so completely different they somehow complete each other. i want the jealousy and the feelings of inadequacy that goes with it. 

i want to write people who aren’t afraid to be honest with their partner. who aren’t afraid to say 'yeah you’re being an asshole’ followed by 'but i still love you, you idiot.’

i want the first time they see their partner cry and the morning after their first intimate night when everything feels so right.

i want people who get so used to one another that they stop going the extra mile. i want the ‘you don’t make the effort because you already have me’ argument.

i want relationships that challenge each other to be better people and make each other question their beliefs and moral compass. 

but most of all, i want to write relationships that are real. that make you feel something. i want to go on the emotional rollercoaster right along with them.

that’s what i want.


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6 years ago

jealousy starters.

❛i don’t get what you even see in ____.❜

❛they’re not right for you, you know.❜

❛why do you keep staring at them?❜

❛you’re late. why are you coming home at 3 am? it’s someone else, isn’t it?❜

❛why do you always win?❜

❛hey – can you get off their dick for five seconds?❜

❛it’s almost like you’re dating them.❜

❛it’s almost like you married them.❜

❛you like them a lot, don’t you?❜

❛after all these years, i never thought i’d lose to someone like them.❜

❛chose between them or me.❜

❛me? JEALOUS?!….. HAHAHAHAHahaHAHAhAhahHA… yes.❜

❛me? JEALOUS? you’re out of your mind.❜

❛are you dating them or something?❜


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6 years ago

“STAND   STILL,   STAY   SILENT”   STARTER   MEME.

❛   what’s with the hostility?   ❜

❛   there’s literally nothing worth seeing or experiencing outside.   ❜

❛   you just had to show up, didn’t you?   ❜

❛   i don’t want you to be all alone.   ❜

❛   it’s for your own protection.   ❜

❛   i wish i could understand what is happening right now.   ❜

❛   …do you need to talk?   ❜

❛   i don’t care.  you can leave now.   ❜

❛   i want to sleep forever.   ❜

❛   but…you have to keep going. you promised me you would.   ❜

❛   sorry, sorry!  i’ve crossed a line, i’ll back off.   ❜

❛   thank you  ——  for trying to help.  and not leaving me behind.   ❜

❛   i swear i’m not like that anymore.   ❜

❛   it’s not an insult, just a statement.   ❜

❛   i misread the situation.   ❜

❛   i wish…we had gone home already.   ❜

❛   you were supposed to go to bed, you know.   ❜

❛   don’t be afraid!   ❜

❛   it’s been awhile, huh?   ❜

❛   i missed you too.   ❜

❛   do something about your hair, it’s a disgrace of a mess.   ❜

❛   you have done a good job.   ❜

❛   did you wake up in a bad mood?   ❜

❛   don’t go anywhere without me  ——  …please?   ❜

❛   _____…focus on me.   ❜

❛   we’ll see each other again some day.   ❜

❛   don’t be sad.   ❜

❛   i’m sorry.   ❜

❛   you can’t leave me like this!   ❜

❛   uhh, could you slow down?  i’m not catching a word.   ❜

❛   you don’t understand anything.   ❜

❛   no matter what, we’ll at least be friends.   ❜

❛   don’t touch that!   ❜

❛   i’ll leave you behind if you are a risk.   ❜

❛   do you want something?   ❜

❛   could you leave, or…   ❜

❛   can we both agree to not investigate what the source of that was?   ❜

❛   i’m tired.  so very tired.   ❜

❛   come on, now.  be truthful.   ❜

❛   i am not here for your salvation.   ❜

❛   the world will be made to suffer with me.   ❜

❛   sometimes you young people give me migraines.   ❜

❛   it’s not acceptable to give up and die without trying.   ❜

❛   why…why aren’t you freaking out?   ❜

❛   unbelievable.  attention span like a pigeon.   ❜

❛   how can you just sit in here doing nothing and not go insane?!   ❜

❛   you can’t help me. ❜

❛   you’re such a…piss head!  i hate you!   ❜

❛   …i can’t be alone… ❜

❛   i saw something move over there!   ❜


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6 years ago

★~ PSA.

    At the end of the day —— REMEMBER why you’re here to roleplay. There may be people on the site you don’t get along with, or a duplicate that scares you, or you may feel like you’re not the  ‘ go-to ‘  muse  .  .  .  but you need to remember WHY you’re here, & that NOTHING & NOBODY can tear the love, passion, & devotion you have for your muse // blog // hobby! Roleplaying is just a hobby after all, & people can love more than just one interpenetration of a muse, for everyone brings a certain uniqueness to their own. That includes you! At the end of the day, you’ll always have your love & devotion, & no one can ever take that from you.


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6 years ago

                      But, the   T R U T H   is, some things never change. 

                                History has a way of repeating itself. 

                                              It’s just most people don’t live                                               long enough to see it happen.


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6 years ago
“I Have Just One Other Question. In The End, What Should I Be?”

“I have just one other question. In the end, what should I be?”


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6 years ago

different ways to say ‘i love you’. 

‘i’ll make you something, yeah? your favorite dish, just for you.’

‘let’s get you back to bed.’

‘shh, it was just a nightmare.’

‘you like this, don’t you? i remember you saying that.’

‘i drew up a bath for you.’

‘you need rest.’

‘you ought to be asleep.’

‘i bought two.’

‘here. you can have the rest.’

‘i thought of you when i saw this.’

‘i like your smile.’

‘you have a cute laugh.’

‘stay there. i’m coming there to get you.’

‘it’s okay, i’m here, we’re okay.’

‘be careful.’

‘look both ways.’

‘you mean so much to me.’

‘i can’t lose you.’

‘i thought i might have lost you.’

‘how to you feel about the nickname, (insert nickname)?’

‘it looks good on you.’

‘i’ll make you soup.’

‘ah-ah-ah. you’re sick. you need to stay in bed.’

‘are you okay in there?’

‘that’s it, that’s it. get it all out. shh.’

‘it’s a remedy i knew. helps with your throat.’

‘it’s a lullaby. would you like me to sing it to you? would that help you fall asleep?’

‘i’m worried about you.’

‘what do you want to watch?’

‘where would you like to go for dinner?’

‘close your eyes and hold out your hands.’

‘we’ll figure it out.’

‘oh, it’s not big deal. you’re fine.’

‘i brought you some medicine for your cold.’

‘you’re important to me.’

‘this is your favorite song, right?’

‘you’re like a son/daughter to me.’

‘good luck!’

‘you’re like a mom/dad to me.’

‘don’t say that about yourself.’

‘want to come with?’

“wow! you look really nice.’

‘goodnight, (insert term of affection).’

‘it’s okay. i couldn’t sleep anyway.’

‘you can have half.’

‘come here. let me fix it.’

‘your tie is crooked.’

‘c’mere. shh, it’s okay.’

‘i’m not going to hurt you.’

‘can i touch you?’

‘can i kiss you?’

‘can i hug you?’

‘promise.’

‘would i ever lie to you?’

‘i think you’re very beautiful/handsome.’

‘hey, good-looking.’

‘of course i care. you’re my family.’

‘one more chapter.’

‘i love you.’


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