Evil Wonderful Substance

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1 year ago

bbc merlin - 03x04 Gwaine

the way arthur doesn't push as much as he just shoulder bumps merlin, the way merlin starts running before arthur even makes a move, the way arthur only runs about three steps before stopping. intricate rituals etc etc.

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merlin bbc merlin merlin emrys merthur Arthur Pendragon arthur rahhhhhhh FUCKING GAY PEOPLE SO CUTE I SCREAM

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8 months ago

Words From On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous By Ocean Vuong

Words from On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong

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6 months ago

omg i didn’t get to boop anyone last time :D

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boop halloween so fun

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1 year ago

It occurs to me that my ideal aroace partnership is like how the animal shelter sometimes calls animals that aren't even the same species a bonded pair.

They're not mating, but if you separate them, one of them might die of the Sadness.

Maybe I should just start saying Bonded Pair because the normies get too fuckin' hung up on the definition of "Queerplatonic."

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1 year ago

updatw: reading sherlock holmes for the first time… they are gay always have been

im watching sherlock for the first time and they are just gay?? idc john has a wife or whatever they are gay. its a fact. at least i strongly believe sherlock believes they are in a relationship no matter how much john denies that he is gay. anyways…

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1 year ago

the amount of times I paused and screamed at Netflix during that fucking show is massive. I want to both slap the shit out of them and kiss each one on the mouth

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dead boy detectives

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1 year ago

too many blorbos, too little time

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ineffable husbands payneland merthur Johnlock arlefuri jonklock overcrowded me thinks

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1 year ago

after 11 tabs, 2 video essays, 6 hours of chatting on discord, 4 meals, 7 zone-out sessions, 4 doodle pages, 2 illustrations, 10 hours of twitter scrolling, 3 hour naps, 1 DnD session, 7 hours of tumblr scrolling, 15 hours of switching between social medias, 5 youtube videos about my hyperfixation, 2 hours of wikipedia hopping, 4 mental breakdowns, 3 hours of make-up, 9 hours of outfit wearing, and 12 old youtube videos, I FINALLY finished my 5 minute homework! ^_^

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autism adhd < not my tag minus the discord bc i have no friends lmao i love being neurodivergetn love it here

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1 year ago

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sherlock holmes bbc sherlock Johnlock sherlockbbc sherlock fandom sherlock x john idk what other tags to put they are gay what can i say too many references to them being gay for be to believe they are not

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1 year ago

i just remember sitting with my parents before school saying i just cant go and them telling me exactly this. i really hated going to school, it was loud and people never liked me that much. i felt strange all the time but i just tried to pretend i wasn’t some days, then others it was too much and i just couldn’t handle anything

Twitter/X thread from Victoria Duncan on X:
"At some point, very early on, undiagnosed neurodivergent children are faced with a terrible dilemma.

They will tell someone they're in pain, someone they trust, and that person will say no they're not. That didn't hurt. It can't have. They're being selfish/dramatic/lying.

The child has to get their head around it. They feel pain, but a trusted caregiver says they don't and they're being bad for saying so. How can it be true?

There are only two, bad, options.

The child may choose to believe the caregiver and decide that they are wrong about their pain. They will make this choice again and again over the years and slowly learn to ignore their body until they are barely connected to it at all. They learn not to trust themselves.

Or, the child might not be able to ignore the reality of their pain. In which case, they have to give up on pleasing their caregiver by keeping quiet as demanded. They learn that adults won't believe or take care of them. They learn not to trust other people.

I think whichever choice you make, you carry the rest of your life, disconnected either from your own body and experiences, or from other people and meaningful relationships. Maybe both.

Anyway, diagnosis is the only way out of the dilemma. It's the only way your reality can be different from other people's without someone being at fault - is if you have a word like "sensory overwhelm" to explain the difference.

That's why diagnosis changes lives & why people want it so much.

This is about saying you're in pain because of sensory overwhelm, but it can also be about saying you're tired from sitting still or socializing or reading and someone says you can't be. Saying you "don't like" an activity you find hard, and having people assume the worst of you.

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autism autistic actually autistic neurodivergent looking back at my life through the lense of autism is making me lose my mind its alll so frustrating i never had the words to describe my overwhelming feelings

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