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Ground Rules

Another day of Hotwifing advice and of course..your questions and stories is upon us. Today I am going to address the topic of Ground Rules.

I have heard some major horror stories in the lifestyle from couples who swing and from couples who Hotwife and all due to this one most important topic. Due to the fact that there are 2 people involved in both lifestyles, you have to remember that feelings and emotions matter not just with you, but also with your partner. Without solid ground rules that address the feelings of both partners, this lifestyle can and does destroy marriages and relationships.

As a Hotwife myself, my goal in the lifestyle is not just to fuck other men, but to enhance my marriage with my husband. In fact, the latter is priority number one! And if you don’t do the same, then you are not Hotwifing….you are just dating and playing the field.

To avoid the tragedy, ..set ground rules….both of you! My Stag and I do not have many ground rules now but we started off with a ton of them. And if you are just starting off in this lifestyle, I can recommend a few to use on your own. Experiment with them. Use them if you like. Add to them if you like. Delete a couple if you like. It really is all about what works best for you both as a couple.

A good one to start with is to set the ground rule of ..You do not message or contact men without your Stags approval. And you do not agree to meet anyone without his approval. This will eliminate the possibility of jealousy.

Another good one is that you will not have a playdate without your Stag being present. The truth of this one is that your Stag most likely really will demand this anyway for safety sake.

Another is that there is no kissing (I can’t do this one at all and my Stag has never laid down this rule but there are those who are serious about this one)

Couples who are ok with the wife playing alone, some set a rule for the Hotwife to take pics and video each and every time they have a playdate. (This is one of my Stags rules).

Another good one for beginners is to always include the Stag, whether that be by the sex itself or the constant eye contact or touching. This is used to assure the partner that you are his always and it also helps show affection in a very intimate setting.

Some Stags require their Hotwife to dress super sexy. But I think this is a given anyway!

Another very good one for beginners is to set the rule that anytime one of you is feeling uncomfortable with anything, that you immediately stop and talk about it until you come to an agreement and set the boundary or draw a line in the sand.

Remember you can set whatever ground rules that you like. And also remember that this isnt just about you. Do not get into this lifestyle thinking that your needs are to be met only. That doesnt work. This lifestyle is for you both. Keep each other in mind at all times and you will have a great time!

This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and stories of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions or stories today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ♂️♀️♂️ ~LillybGoddess

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An open letter to my Wife and all other Ladies

If your man has had the courage to tell you that he wants you to fuck other men, stop tormenting yourself with the morality of the situation and worrying about whether he loves you, or if this is a ploy for him to have sex with other women. If he is like the other 99% of us who have had the “talk”, then what he wants is for you to experience pleasure and for you to share that pleasure with him in some way.

Each of us are different, pleasure for me is not humiliation, it’s the raw sexual ecstasy that I want her to feel. The thought of watching her pussy stretch around a very hard, thick cock, and makes my cock throb, my breath short, and my lust intense. I can almost feel the pleasure that she would experience between her legs, almost as if my cock were her pussy. I assure you, wives and girlfriends, that this request by your man is an act of love and admiration and is staunchly centered around his lust for ONLY you. In fact most men who want this, rarely fantasize about anyone else but you. You are the center of their sexual fantasies and desires. You will not be “unfaithful” by carrying out this act of love for your husband/boyfriend. Faithfulness is what is in the heart, not a physical act. The words “slut” and “whore” are often used by him referring to you in a loving way…this is what he wants you to be, at least in our secret sexual world (none of your friends and family need to know). The idea of you being promiscuous serves to heighten his desire for you a great deal.

So please, whisper in his ear that you are ready to become a slut for him. Tell him that you want your pussy to be fucked and filled with cum while he watches and then you want him to slide his cock into you and deposit his own load into his little slutty whore. Do it for him, do it for you, free yourself and your sexual desires. You’ll never turn back and wonder why you took so long to get there!

I would love to hear your thoughts ladies and hubbies/boyfriends!

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Hotwife Quotes to Fire Up Your Relationship and Spice Things Up!

Hotwife quotes provide a unique perspective on relationships, marriage and love. They offer insight into the minds of those who are in committed relationships where one partner is allowed to explore sexual experiences outside the relationship. Hotwife quotes can be inspiring for couples looking to spice up their marriage or for individuals seeking an alternative lifestyle.

1. “There’s something about being a hotwife that just feels so naughty and fun!”

2. “A hotwife is a woman who enjoys the attention of other men, but stays loyal to her husband.”

3. “If you’re not married, don’t try to be a hotwife. You need permission from the husband first!”

4. “I like to think of myself as a modern-day hotwife!”

5. “Hotwives are wild and free, but always remain faithful to their husbands!”

6. “It takes two people in an open marriage to make it work—and lots of trust!”

7. “Sharing my wife with other men is an exciting and liberating experience!”

8. “The most important thing about being a hotwife is to keep the trust between husband and wife.”

9. “A hotwife can really spice up a relationship—for both parties!”

10. “My hotwife has been a great way for us to explore our own sexual desires in new ways.”

11. “It’s not just about sex, it’s also about trust and mutual respect between two partners.”

12. “When I see my hotwife looking so beautiful, it fills me with pride that she chose me as her partner.”

13. “We don’t have to be conventional; there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships!”

14. “Every day is a new adventure with my hotwife.”

15. “Having a hotwife is an amazing opportunity to explore our sexuality and discover new heights of pleasure!”

16. “Being the husband of a hotwife has been the most liberating experience I’ve ever had.”

17. “The thought of sharing my wife is thrilling and really turns me on!”

18. “My hotwife and I have been able to build a strong relationship that allows freedom but also loyalty.”

19. “There’s nothing like watching your hotwife get her groove on with another man!”

20. “Exploring the world of hotwifing can be a journey of discovery for both partners.”

21. “The key to having a successful hotwife relationship is communication and understanding each other’s boundaries.”

22. “My wife and I have found that being open about our feelings has helped to strengthen our marriage.”

23. “It takes confidence and courage to be a hotwife, but the rewards are worth it!”

24. “There’s something exciting and mysterious about being a hotwife that keeps me coming back for more!”

25. “As long as my wife and I are on the same page, we can explore this lifestyle to our heart’s content!”

26. “Being a hotwife means you can enjoy all that life has to offer without compromising your commitment to each other.”

27. “My wife is an amazing hotwife; she knows how to have fun while respecting my boundaries.”

28. “We make sure that we take time for ourselves as individuals in order for our relationship as a hotwife couple to thrive.”

29. “Our hotwifing journey has been extremely rewarding, discovering new levels of intimacy within our marriage.”

30. “The trust between us is stronger than ever since introducing the hotwife lifestyle!”

31. “The number one rule for being a hotwife is to be honest and open about your feelings with your partner.”

32. “It’s all about having fun, but also making sure that everyone feels safe and respected.”

33. “Having the support of my husband has allowed me to explore my wilder side as a hotwife!”

34. “My wife and I have found that our relationship has become even more connected as we experiment with this lifestyle.”

35. “Being a hotwife gives us both the freedom to express our true desires in a secure environment.”

36. “It can be nerve-wracking at first, but with trust and communication it can be an incredibly rewarding experience!”

37. “My husband and I have found that the hotwife lifestyle has only brought us closer together.”

38. “The key to a successful hotwifing relationship is mutual respect and understanding between partners.”

39. “We may explore different kinds of activities, but we will always remain faithful to each other!”

40. “I’m proud to be a part of this amazing journey as my wife’s loving and supportive husband!”

41. “My hotwife and I have been able to explore each other’s limits while respecting our boundaries.”

42. “We don’t take ourselves too seriously; it’s all about having fun and expanding our horizons as a couple!”

43. “We feel empowered by the fact that we can both be adventurous in our marriage without fear of judgement or criticism.”

44. “The more we explore the hotwife lifestyle, the more we learn about ourselves and each other!”

45. “My wife is my biggest inspiration, pushing me to reach new heights of pleasure and connection through this journey.”

46. “Our relationship has grown stronger since introducing the hotwife lifestyle, and I couldn’t be prouder!”

47. “The hotwife lifestyle is a beautiful experience that I would recommend to any couple looking to take their relationship to the next level!”

48. “My wife and I are making memories together that will last us a lifetime.”

49. “We can both express our deepest desires in an environment of trust and understanding – all thanks to the hotwife lifestyle.”

50. “My wife is my everything, and being able to share her with others has been an incredible journey for the both of us!”

Hotwife quotes can be a great source of inspiration and motivation for any couple who is looking to spice up their relationship. Whether you’re just starting out or have been in the lifestyle for years, these words from experienced hotwives are sure to provide insight into what it takes to make your marriage thrive.

Take time to reflect on each quote and apply its wisdom directly to your own life, you may find that it helps bring more passion and connection than ever before! With the right attitude and approach, being part of an open marriage can be incredibly rewarding both emotionally and physically. So don’t hesitate start exploring today!

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