i continually see posts telling people how to treat systems correctly and yet i STILL see systems being hurt by harmful behavior, whether singlets know it or not.
do NOT put whether an alter is an introject or not above them being a real person. as a singlet BY DEFAULT their source does not matter to you. treat them like you would anyone else until you know what they are and aren’t okay with.
do NOT treat alters other than the host like they’re lesser than them. everyone in a system is in the same boat, your host friend included. if you treat any other alter like shit the host (and everyone else in the system) WILL be affected.
do NOT trigger alters on purpose. i shouldn’t even have to say this. we aren’t fun little toys for you to play with, we’re REAL FUCKING PEOPLE. i don’t care how big of a fan of our sources you are or how stupid you think our triggers are. be a decent person and treat us like you would anyone else. it’s dehumanizing to act otherwise.
do NOT make jokes about “waiting for [x] to split” to your system friends. this one really depends on the boundaries of whoever’s in question, but joking about wanting us to split is insensitive. we don’t split for fun or for you to interact with your favorite character. we split because it’s how our brain knows how to cope. you’re not in the place to make jokes about this unless you KNOW it’s okay.
often times i see posts like this get mainly reblogged by systems, when singlets are the ones who perpetuate this behavior a majority of the time. singlets can (and should) reblog AND internalize this. we’re real people with a real disorder. learn to treat us like human beings.
saving my favourite twitter thread here just in case
*Casually throws him into the mix*
I swear I don't have issues
[These ideas on Adam are great especially him trying to be a good dad to his kids finally Unforntally it won't happen cause unless that dagger/letter opener? wasn't a holy weapon he is gone forever since Viv has already stated that if you die by a holy weapon that is it you are gone no coming back and no Pensious does not count cause that was holy MAGIC not a holy weapon. two totally different things. I it kind of a shame Adam was killed off cause these are all brilliant ideas on how he can turn from a asshole to someone that wants to help. Keep up with these ideas please! I enjoy reading em!
Thank you so much, I'm very fucking happy that someone agrees and tbh , I don't really expect it all that much but if my thoughts or manifestations don't come true I'm putting matters into my own hands and writing if
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