my advice to you is to never waste your time trying to fit into a club or hobby or any community who makes you beg for acceptance and approval just to participate when you could do the alternative—get involved in a niche and endangered hobby run primarily by old people.
i wanted to learn how to hunt ruffed grouse and train bird dogs so i sent an email to my local chapter of the ruffed grouse society explaining that getting into wildlife groups is intimidating to me because I’m trans
and all they saw was that someone under 60 wanted to learn to hunt grouse & several months into my mentorship I was told that like 7 old guys argued over me until they had to pick a number between 1 and 100 to decide who got to personally mentor me.
imagine vying for the acceptance of some gatekeeping weirdos when your mere interest could be inciting verbal combat among retirees
across the multiverse!!
my grubhub being delivered by a wizard or some sort of apostle
Aro culture is watching a show/movie take the boring route with their nonhuman society by making them experience relationships the way western societies typically do. When the opportunity was RIGHT THERE to flesh out how their species and cultural differences extend to how they connect with each other. Like, come on! That could have been so much more interesting 😭
This isn't just about romance, either. You're telling me nuclear family roles are a universal experience, even for nonhumans? And that their society pushes the idea or love and expects their people to find partners instead of acknowledging the possibility that isn't universal, either? Boring!
nuclear family as default and marriage for romance as default literally only became things in the 1900s. even among human history they're not common!! why would it be the way aliens or nonhumans in general operate!!
WOAH? I'M ONE OF THE COOL KIDS AGAIN? GEE WHILICKERS!!
(I do not have a lot of mutuals to tag, so I shall tag the people before me. You are not being coerced)
@tignya @a-rand0m-bl0g @https-quinttaft
ASK GAME!!
Do THIS QUIZ and say your result
Thats what I got!!! @wanderingwierdo @the-cherryblossom-system @blooper-malte @a-secret-rpblog @gobodegoblin @beeflingo @ibuildblasters
STEVE CARLSBURG IS CECILS BROTHER??
Uk peeps!! Let’s get this going! 🏳️⚧️🇬🇧
well it's about time I start drawing boingo stuff again!! I have ideas that have been sitting in my head for years. workshopping this groovy man who Knows Whats On Your Mind...
>>crowned
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