Reminder To:

sometimes you’re just in an act 2 kind of mood

rest well, beautiful space mom.

Who hurt you

My expectations

When somebody comes out to you about their orientation, “I don’t care who you date/fuck/whatever” is the woooorst thing to say.

When I tell you I’m queer, I’m not purely telling you “oh, I am attracted to people regardless of gender”. I am also saying “hey, I grew up surrounded by homophobia that affected me” and “oh, I worry a lot about my rights being taken away” and even “oh, I’ve been subjected to harrassment and violence”.

I am telling you something about my whole life, not just my love life.

Hell, that even extends to if I follow it up with “I’m also asexual”. It doesn’t just mean “I don’t have sex”, it also means “I grew up without the expectation of a long term romantic relationship being likely for me”, and “My expectations for and the reality of my romantic life are very different and complicated”, and more. It’s the reason I have never dated anyone, and that is a part of my life beyond “doesn’t enjoy sex”!

Our orientations help position us in society whether we like it or not, they impact how we relate to ourselves and others, they impact our likely life experiences. I don’t care that you don’t care that I’d date girls boys and everyone else too, or that I don’t look for sex in a relationship. That’s not what I’m mentioning when I say I’m a queer ace.

someone: veronica did nothing wrong

me, confused: no

someone: jd did nothing wrong

me, disturbed: no

someone: heather chandler did nothing wrong

me, laughing: no

someone: heather duke did nothing wrong

me, shaking my head: no

someone: heather mcnamara did nothing wrong

me, exasperated now: no

someone: kurt and ram did nothing wrong

me, offended: no

someone: betty finn and martha did nothing wrong

me: actually yes

ok shoutout to my people with imperfect skin !! i’m talking any kind of imperfections u all rock and you are beautiful

Broadway Nerd Question:

Scenario: You get to perform one song on Broadway. The full thing, to a full house. Assume you’ll magically be able to hit all the notes and steps perfectly.

What song is it? Reblog with your answer.

Are you gonna tell us to smile now? Call us ‘sweetheart’?

ill pay u $7 to have a crush on me