Talking With A One-downer Is So Much Worse Than Talking With A One-upper.

Talking with a one-downer is so much worse than talking with a one-upper.

Both of them make you belittled and insignificant. But one of them makes you feel like your plights are invalid and completely overshadowed by their own.

I know damn well that I'm in a better place than a lot of other people. But when I'm expressing my own struggles and want to talk about them, that's not an invitation to start talking about your own problems and how much worse off you are.

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