THIS!!! He’s Far From Perfect And His Behavior Has Been Questionable But He’s Also Unlearning Everything

THIS!!! He’s far from perfect and his behavior has been questionable but he’s also unlearning everything he’s ever been taught and that takes time. We saw everything he internalized from the Chefs he worked with, the good and the bad, everything that made him who he is as a chef and a person. It’s going to take time and therapy to go through all that trauma and learn how to let go of things that aren’t benefiting him. Carmy’s got a long way to go in the healing process but so does Syd and maybe they can do it together

ngl watching how some of y’all talk about Carmen makes me so fucking depressed as someone with a lot of baggage and trauma

no one said you have to put up with bullshit behavior forever, but if you think that someone who was torn down every day of their life is gonna be perfect the moment they realize they have a problem to fix in themselves, you’re going to be disappointed. repeatedly. forever.

none of y’all deserve Sydney either, bc she’s a damn good depiction of what it’s like to be someone who loves and cares for someone who’s fucked up. A side of the equation I ALSO happen to be familiar with. you hold that person accountable for shit behavior, back away when you need to for your health, and because you love them, you fucking come back.

Idk what kind of interpersonal relationships y’all have that can so easily be thrown away the moment shit isn’t perfect the way YOU need it, but this fucking “I don’t owe anyone anything least of all my shoulder to cry on” mindset sucks dick and balls when applied to media as much as it does in real life.

People are burdens. Plain and simple. Community requires sacrifice, love and partnership requires sacrifice. Or at the very fucking least: compromise.

Like. If you met someone who understood you better than anyone, a person whose entire life has been parallel to yours in a way that uniquely binds the two of you, y’all would really just fucking walk away WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING just because they’re hurting and lashing out? Because that’s what y’all are advocating for, and that’s the fucking problem.

So many of y’all have this “I shouldn’t have to speak up and set a boundary” mindset. you just fucking sulk and stew in it and then blow up because you never set your foot down when you needed to.

Even if Sydney walks away from Carmen, she needs to fucking speak up or she’s gonna get walked on AGAIN. She deserves better but she also has to fucking ask for it. And that’s entirely separate from the fact that Carmen needs to pull his head out of his ass.

Either way, I think we would all do well to fucking self-reflect.

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5 months ago

Look I know they would’ve never done it but can you how imagine how funny it would’ve been if they kept Dean fourteen for the rest of season 10 after about a boy. Imagine the comedic potential, especially if they met up with Cas. “Dean got zapped back to fourteen by a witch and we kept him that way because the mark of Cain is gone but don’t worry we’ll figure out how turn him back ” “you WHAT-“


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1 year ago

Okay so I need a PJO edit to hope ur ok by Olivia Rodrigo, specifically with the lyric “l hope you know how proud I am you were created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred”


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11 months ago

Oh I am unwell

Cause I hate this story

Where happiness ends and dies with you

I thought good guys get to be happy

I'm not happy

I am poison in the water and unhappy

-ethel cain, hard times


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1 year ago

So I’ve seen a lot of speculation that Carmy is going to die at the end of The Bear and tbh, I kinda hate that theory. I get that it may seem plausible with Carmy’s current character arc but I feel like it would be redundant with Mikey’s death (and possibly Marcus’ mother dying). It would also diminish one of The Bears biggest underlying themes, hope. The idea that there is life after death and that you can find happiness and love after everything you’ve been through. Mikey dying, Carmy escaping the confines of fine dining and returning home to run The Beef, to finding his very own found family, to meeting Sydney, to opening The Bear, and to hopefully embark on a healing journey, all of that would mean nothing if Carmy died in the end. Mikey didn’t hide all of that money in all of those tomato cans and leave The Beef to Carmy only for him to end up with the same fate as his big brother. Carmy’s death would do nothing more than rob Natalie of another brother, take away the love of Syd’s life, destroy Richie all over again and leave The Bear with a very void and sad finale. Not every story has to end in tragedy and death, sometimes there can be happy endings too.


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1 year ago

Even better, they’re doing something fluffy and domestic (cooking together preferably) and he’s just gazing at her with the softest and most adoring look in his eyes and it just slips out

Need carmen to say “I love you” before him and sydney even date. let me clarify, I’m not even thinking of it as a confession in some heated moment I want it to just slip out and he’s a little mortified till sydney’s like “same!”


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10 months ago

We don’t appreciate the Women of The Bear nearly as much as we should (Syd, Tina and Nat specifically). They are carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders, running the restaurant, cleaning up every one’s messes, all the while being the most kind and caring people you’ve ever met when they have every right not to be


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1 month ago

Supernatural is so unrealistic because you’re telling me Mary didn’t absolutely rock John’s shit in Lebanon after “i never was”/ “I had to be more than just a brother” and every other thing she found out about


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1 year ago
It Has Been Brought To My Attention That Some Of These Are Wrong And That Carmy Is Absolutely A Male

It has been brought to my attention that some of these are wrong and that Carmy is absolutely a male wife so I fixed it

I Have No Explanation For This

I have no explanation for this


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