Y'all Should Follow Them /pos

if you're ok with an incessant amount of boops reblog this so I can get those other 2 badges <3

Abuse has a goal behind it, and a lot of the time, it's about changing the victims behavior. If someone screams at you for not doing X activity, eventually you learn to do X activity. If someone hits you when you defy them, eventually you learn not to defy them. If someone abuses you frequently enough, and you begin to break down to their will... It is possible to reach a point where it may seem like you're not being abused anymore.

They don't yell anymore because you stay quiet and do what you're told. They don't threaten you anymore because you don't voice even the slightest disagreement or need. What used to be screaming fighting arguments have become lectures at your expense. They may even praise you for doing what they want you to. And all those mundane moments - breakfast, the rare kind act - stand out more. Your perception of the relationship skews even more. It's all normal now.

And it's still abuse. It's just reached its end goal - wearing you down so badly that they don't need to overtly abuse you anymore to get what they want. All they need to do is make a joke, or complain to guilt you, or tell you want to do/not to do, etc. etc. The fact that's all it takes now doesn't make what's happening to you less severe - if anything, it means you're in much, much more danger than you could realize.

It's abuse. It's horrific. It's just not obvious anymore... and that's terrifying. You deserve so, so much better. You deserve to truly be safe - not to have your wellbeing held behind fearful compliance. That's not safety. That's not love. That's abuse. It being psychological doesn't make it less dangerous.

Shrug and shake head

Sorry for the period of absence, couldn't find the energy to try and make emotes for a bit

Fox person shaking their head no

Fox person shrugging

Happy birthday, welcome to the old people ranks /j

‘help me i’m dying’ a minor begs as they bleed out on the side of the road

‘MINORS DNI!!’ i reply as the clock strikes midnight on my 18th birthday

@doctor-feelings @hero-society-system @thecoffeecrew404 @arctic-fox-covern @gisemojis and other mutuals we've never talked to

👀👀 not gonna name names but SOME of u are sweet and kind and deserve the world and i am rooting for u

Get help <3

Honestly, this is hilarious to me, which "hot take" of mine has your knickers in this particular knot ❤🖤

Guys, guys, so there's been a joke in our server between the staff that we all have to make our own TBH creature, so here's ours, hir name is Pajama or PJ, it uses it/hir/rot and I would give my life for rot /hj

You should also like, totally join our server and watch us staff be all sortsa silly

Also if you want more Pajama facts please ask

You'll make my day

Plurality Wrapped

This year you:

Fakeclaimed yourself 5,729 times

Accidentally discovered 92 trauma memories

Immediately forgot 92 trauma memories

Contradicted something a different headmate said 288 times

Almost outed yourself 45 times

Had littles spend all your money 67 times

Forgot what you were doing 2,890 times

Failed to mask as the host 176 times

Split who knows how many new headmates

Repeated the same story 39 times

Got jumpscared by your reflection 103 times

Your top moods this year:

Who the fuck am I

What if I’m secretly faking it

How long have I been standing here dissociating

I suddenly hate (current activity)

When did we split (headmate)???

✨ reblog this if you want people to send anonymous assumptions about you! ✨

In the "feeling hated" part right now