I Actually Need Him

now that's a way of getting a diagnosie

OMG YES???

Happy birthday Tomura!!! In my mind you’re still alive and kicking 🤧

this is actually so extremely necessary and motivating, where were you during 2020 shifttok

✶ things i learned from shifting. . . as someone who's shifted.

i , the hardest part is pretending it's hard : shifting is not a herculean task. it's not climbing everest barefoot or decoding the voynich manuscript. it's deciding you're done with the mundane and stepping into the divine. every time you say, "i can't shift," you're just playing a trick on yourself. a bit like insisting you don't know how to breathe until someone reminds you. (spoiler: you do.)

ii , time is a house of mirrors :  when you shift, you're not "leaving" this reality. you're just walking down another hallway. it feels linear until you turn, and suddenly you're face-to-face with yourself, or a version of you that's holding a cat and wearing thigh-high boots. time is bendy. it's pliable. it's like clay, in a way. it's an obedient servant if you tell it to be.

iii , belief is your first-class ticket :  you don’t need a spell, a potion, or a seven-step guide. you just need belief. conviction is the real magic here. call it delusion if you like. i call it decisive manifesting. and trust me, i've shifted while feeling like a hollow shell of a human. belief doesn’t have to roar.

iv , you can't outrun yourself : shift all you want, but the core of you, the you that laughs too hard, cries too often, and loves too much, comes along for the ride. your dr self isn’t some perfect barbie doll version of you. they're you, but in technicolour. the grass is greener, but you're still the one who's walking barefoot on it.

v , failing is still shifting :  every attempt you call a failure is still a step closer to mastering it. you don’t beat yourself up for dreaming weird dreams, do you? so why do it here? your mind’s just warming up, stretching its muscles. let it stumble. even if you "fail," you’re still playing the game, and that counts.

vi , nothing is as serious as it seems :  shifting is playful, silly, camp. you’re choosing realities where you’re a pureblood gryffindor or dating a young peter parker!! have fun with it. get deranged. be the girl who giggles when thinking about her dr instead of sulking. make it ridiculous and extravagant. you’re literally bending reality to your will. why not make it a soap opera?

vii , you’re never ‘too much' : the universe doesn’t care if you want to rule a kingdom or live quietly in a cottage by the sea. your desires are never too loud, too big, or too weird. you are expansive. your mind was built for this. ask for it all, then ask for more.

viii , shifting is a love letter to yourself :  it’s saying, "i believe in you," over and over, in different fonts, languages, and realities. it’s the grandest way to love yourself, to say you deserve the universe and every parallel one, too.

ix , reality is a suggestion, not a rule :  the same way you decide to wear eyeliner and not cry in it, you decide what’s real. you decide the boundaries, the limits, the laws. shift as easily as you breathe because that’s what it is: life, but on your terms.

x , trust the multiverse, and trust yourself :  the multiverse knows what it’s doing, but so do you. trust that you’re aligned with everything you’re seeking and that everything you’re seeking is also seeking you. it’s not just about waiting for the stars to align. . . it’s about knowing that you are the one aligning them. believe that the shift is already happening, because it is. all you have to do is show up for it.

now, stop doubting and go.

if you find more I beg you please drop the names, I can't I read all of the possible fics already

Guys i NEED more leo-valdez-having-a-mental-breakdown-and-overusing-his-powers fics, i NEED more leo valdez-centric fics, i NEED more leo valdez angst, I NEED MORE LEO VALDEZ

and that's basically how I realized I'm aromantic

mentally categorizing everyone’s ideas of romance into “this is just what having friends is like”, “this sounds like personality disorder symptoms”, and “i kind of understand this but I don’t understand why you’d want it”

omg YES, I always imagine that handholding feels like a kiss for him cause it requires so much trust and intimacy to actually want to hold his hand knowing you could be dead in a millisecond

idk I always think abt that I could imagine him actually panicking if someone got their hand way too close to his (someone he cares of course)

Tomura who is used to his quirk and doesn’t shy away from casual touches (but only with people he’s really close with). He has no reluctance towards putting a hand on his partner’s back or waist or thigh. But something about handholding scares him. It’s too interlocked, too close for him to feel save about it. So when someone is willing to put that much trust in him, the risk feels awfully intimate.

so what you're saying is that we shouldn't have genders, they're harmful and blah blah blah

and i fucking agree, gender roles are stupid, gendered things are stupid, but not gender necessarily

gender is way of expressing yourself and through the years society started to claim certainly things as belongings to a certain gender which is kinda meh cause everyone should be able to express themselves the way they want without the concern of being labeled

having said that, the belief that we should identify with our biological sex only is as harmful as the concept of gender society created

if we should be able to express ourselves freely and without being labeled due the things we like and do, sex shouldn't matter as well

"oh but if gender doesn't matter then why are you changing your body with surgeries and hormones" because I want to? thats how I express myself regardless of gender norms?

the only thing you need to do is call me the way I want you to call me, otherwise I can call you whatever the fuck I want and you couldn't complain

if I'm "harming" my body that's definitely not your problem or anyone else's, it's MY body, MY way of expressing myself

something else is the fact you want a "female only space" for whatever reason, isn't that gendering something? you just said that genders are harmful and all?

🪐✨Welcome ✨🪐

Are you a so called terf? Are you a reality shifter or interested in becoming one? Our community may just be the perfect fit for you.

What are the requirements to join? And what are the community rules?

You might be female. (This is a female only space.)

You might have multiple gender critical posts. (If you don’t have such posts we may still accept you if you can explain gender critical feminism in your own words.)

We will not tolerate racism, homophobia, sexism, bullying of other members, etc.

No TIFs TRAs or TIMs are allowed.

Outing / exposing members for being terfs will not be tolerated.

What is this club about?

This club is about shifting of course. This group was mostly started to talk about shifting with TIMs and TRAs around. But you are also free to talk about other topics. Such as, witchcraft, lucid dreaming, astral projections, spirituality in general.

Comment or PM to join us. <3

the best part is the Minecraft movie coming out in the same day as his bday

the mutuals and me preparing for the most important holiday of the year (Shigaraki Tomura's birthday)

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