It’s so upsetting to see how many people live the same heartbreaking reality. No child (no matter how old they are) should feel the burden of their parents negativity. No child should feel anger and pain because of their parents. It doesn’t have to be physical to effect you. I hope everyone finds healing and love no matter how hard it seems to be.
Some fathers are born miserable
I think
Or at least mine was
He had a rough childhood
He hardened his heart
Threw out his feelings- left unused
He stares at the world with dead eyes
Soon, he's gifted with children
You'd think kids would change him
But he remains a miserable man to this day
Dragging us through the muck of his pain
Allowing us to swallow his discomfort and agony
Instead of teaching us things
Like love and regulating feelings-the good, the bad, and the downright ugly
We learned how to be filled with rage and emptiness
How to yell until our voice bounces off the walls
Our faces red from our generational anger
We can't help but tether his suffering
To our bones
But as an "adult"
In her Wretched Twenties
Who sees him with fresh eyes
I will not be the keeper of my fathers' pain
Margaret Atwood, Morning in the Burned House; from ‘Half-Hanged Mary’
Who’s like waiting for someone to save them?? Just me? Ok
Hugs are actually so underrated especially those hugs that are so tight u can literally feel the other person’s heartbeat n for a moment everything feels so calm and safe like nothing can hurt you
Yesssss
can we all agree that pressing foreheads together is an underrated act of affection??
I hope we all find that special someone that makes sure you’re feeling good and listens to you
First everyone should find themselves and be in a good place with themselves and remember if someone loves you they’d make sure you’re always feeling good about yourself and your decisions. They’d always make sure you’re at you best not your worst. They won’t call out your insecurities, your fears and always make you feel guilty for things that you shouldn’t feel guilty for. Bottom line they should love, support and respect you in a way that makes you grow into a better version of yourself.
Someone out there loves you and everyone deserves love
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