I’m So Proud Of Myself; I Let My History Professor Know That I’m Autistic And Have Social Anxiety

Enjoy these photos of my baby, I got more that I’ll post at a later time/date

Damn you (neutral) now you got me actually wanting to write that essay

This literally makes me want to do research and everything

I don’t have the time to do that 😭😭😭

the aromantic urge to write an essay about the tendency to over-emphasize love within restorative spaces and how that is ultimately harmful and narrows our vision

I relate to this so much, especially the part about caring(?) about your friends, but not necessarily wanting(?) friendship (I’m not sure if I’m wording this right)

Being aplspec makes discussions about friendships in aro spaces so awkward like. Yeah I agree friendship should be given more respect and amatonormativity should be dismantled. Yes I care very deeply for my friend(s). No I can't relate to your experiences with friendship or wanting friends. You've lost me. Why are you talking about friendship as if everyone has and/or wants it. Hey. Whatever happened to allowing people to decide what relationships they want and what those relationships entail for themselves.

It's exhausting because aro spaces are often one of the only spaces that will respect my devotion and care (sometimes I even call it love, depending on how I'm feeling that day) for my friend, but friendship is also just treated like romance is everywhere else and no one even seems to notice. You're not gonna defeat amatonormativity with the power of platonormativity. Have you considered readjusting your understanding of relationship anarchy and questioning your own biases and assumptions about platonic relationships? I'm drowning in "use friendship as a substitute for romance" posts over here

(and it's like. I don't want to criticize people's love for their friends or anything like that. I'm just so tired of all the assumptions of having and wanting friends. They're everywhere in here and make me feel so estranged from my own community)

(this turned into a bit of a vent but it's okay to rb and add on)

I hate that the possibility of me not being able to finish college and get a bachelor’s degree is getting more and more realistic.

I’m relying on a scholarship type thingy that pays a big chunk of my tuition but it relies on my grades, I need like all A’s in order to be able to keep going to college. I know that theoretically I didn’t but I can’t help but feel like I failed.

It also doesn’t help that I can’t really work due to disability (I unfortunately was unable to get benefits even though one of my testers(?) said I need it).

Welp guess who’s sick 😗✌️

And yet I still have to do schoolwork 😔

(I have not done any today yet) (that is beside the point)

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Alright…. Well you guys were right I am NOT an INFP :D I am also NOT an ISFP or an ISTP either though I’m kind of in between if I’m an IS

Check out above post if you want more context

Ok so according my results from these tests:

I’m inclined to believe that I’m an ISTJ

I had also initially taken the keys2cognition quiz around the same time I took the first sakinorva test and I basically got the same results as this recent one on here (unfortunately I had deleted the past results and can’t get them back)

🤸 Welcome to marine facts with Bagel: part 2

Wolf eels (which are not eels at all despite the name) have life long mates

Bagel out 🤸

Yes yes yes, this, this right here

I think more people should headcanon characters as repulsed, loveless, and non-partnering actually.

since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!

I don’t know how to reblog with tags (like another person’s tags) (I’m not sure if that’s possible)

Anyways…

YESSSS THIS RIGHT HERE

ND culture is being given one task from someone and being set on completing that task and getting upset(?) when the task is interrupted because someone else wants you to do another task.

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