Something similar that I've noticed: people being disgusted by feet so they can never be associated with having a feet fetish. People also like and even sexualise veiny hands but you will never catch anyone say : Ewww hands! Get those away from me! I think it's such a shame that we have associated being okay with feet to having a feet fetish. It's a body part goddamnit. If you have a partner you are going to love all of their body, their hands, neck and that includes feet. If you love someone in general you are going to appreciate all of them. Please don't sexualise everything.
In some cultures, it's perfectly normal for siblings to kiss each other and to shower together <- (of the same gender but it's not unheard of for siblings of different genders showering together also)
In asian culture, for example, a culture that I grew up under, it was normal to bathe together!!! But if you mention it to someone who is white. It's a shock, pure culture shock to the point they are HORRIFIED. They start running their mouth,
"omg! You were groomed!" , "That's so gross!" , "How could your parents allow that!?"
They start acting like you said you and your sibling were getting intimate when all you said was that you grew up showering together sometimes. Their brains are rotted with the incest porn genre, a genre they are so obsessed with that it always seems to be in the back of their minds. It annoys me.
I think about the time where someone talked about how in their culture they grew up kissing their siblings on the cheek, lips <- (little pecks), and their nose. And white people immediately flooded in and said it was incest. WHY?
Why does the idea of other cultures existing seem like such a foreign concept to you? Why do you need to label it as something it's not? It's exhausting, it's annoying trying to defend the way we grew up all because white people cannot handle it.
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A little advice from someone studying extremist groups: if you’re in a social media environment where the daily ubiquitous message is that you have no hope of any kind of future and you can’t possibly achieve anything without a violent overthrow of society, you’re being radicalized, and not in the good way.
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