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I love this so much! It is so true! So many doms and subs really need to understand this and how important it is.

That’s the side I want to see, baby girl! The real you! The one you keep hidden from everyone else! The one you are afraid to let anyone know! That’s the you I want, baby girl! Let me keep her safe! Let me protect her! Let me give you that safe space to be you! No worries, no judgements, no misgivings! Just free to be yourself in all your glory, with all your imperfections, fears, foibles, all your hopes and dreams, all your quirks, all your desires! Let me see it all, baby girl!

Let’s go baby girl. Let’s take off to the woods. Find someplace nice and private, all to ourselves. We’ll get naked and stay naked all weekend long. Just us in nature, loving each other and making love! Skinny dipping, laying under the stars, having adventures, playing and fucking whenever and wherever we want to. Are you ready baby girl?

Hell ya

Firstly you are a handsome man. But your words truly touch my mind and I enjoy reading your post regularly 🙈❤️

Awww!! Thank you! 😊 You are so sweet! I’m so glad you enjoy my stories and posts! I’ll try to keep them coming!

Mmmm you’re sexy!

He he. Thank you, sweet girl! ☺️

Mmmm sometimes baby girl needs a little more attention! It’s always ok to tell daddy or show daddy what you need! Believe it or not daddy loves to spoil you and give you attention! Daddy loves to caress you and stroke your hair and make you feel good! So it’s ok to show daddy! It’s just a soothing for daddy as it is for you, kitten!

That’s what I want! Pillow fights in bed, wrestling and tickling and playing until we are kissing and clutching and craving each other! Show me that playfulness, baby girl! Show me what a little smart ass you are, let me see your inner little girl, show me that bratty side! Whack me in the back with your pillow when I’m not looking and dare me to make something of it! I’ll wrestle you and tickle you and pillow fight you until we are both gasping and giggling and laughing! Then I’ll grab your little hands in mine, pin you to the bed and show your squirmy little ass just how much daddy wants and needs you! Kissing you, tasting you, teasing you and fucking you until you are a cumming little mess for me! After we are both spent and gasping we will lie tangled together and start to laugh all over again! That’s what I want!

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Just say hello and let’s chat about your day or how beautiful the night sky is!

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Hi!

First of all I would like to apologize if at some point this question bothers you, but I would like to ask for advice.

My partner (M) and I (F) have been together for a year and a half, he is completely vanilla with strong traditional convictions and I have had a past linked to bdsm and the Dom/Sub relationship.

The truth is that when we first started dating I told him about it and he told me that he didn't care, but that he couldn't see himself hurting someone he loved. I didn't bring it up again because I had that part of me asleep, but now I feel like I need that again and I don't know how to introduce it and make him see that it's not pain, but something that goes beyond that.

Could you please give me some advice?

Thanks in advance.

There is nothing for you to apologize for. I’m happy to do what I can to help and you’re not the only one to have run into this issue before. I’ve even had partners that were very vanilla and I had to adjust to what they were comfortable with. I don’t know that any two (or more) partners ever exactly match their kinks and levels. So you have to find what works for the both of you. It’s a growing process for you both and the key is being able to talk about it. The trouble is that talking is often the hard part for most people. Do you feel you can talk about it with him openly and that he will receive what your saying? That’s going to be key and it will be tough if he can’t meet you that far.

Exploring kinks can be a challenge for the vanilla flavored people and especially if they are the victim of traditional brainwashing. Yes I say brainwashing because that’s what I feel it is. People can be so conditioned by their family, culture, religion, society. It’s hard to shake that. Their brains are so conditioned to think of all kinks as bad and they really can’t process how satisfying those desires can be so freeing and liberating and fulfilling. The key for you to open up his world is going to be doing it by small increments. Think of it as expanding his horizon and comfort zone. You just may have to be a bit patient with him and always check in with each other afterwards.

Most partners really want to please each other. Hopefully yours is the same way. So if you sit him down and explain that this is something you are desiring and that you want to share with him and that it will really turn you on I’d be willing to bet that he will at least listen. Don’t start him out with whips or nipple clamps or anything that will make him feel like he’s hurting you. Start him out with some basic power play maybe. For example tell him that it really turns you on when he tells you to suck him and how, or to manhandle you into what position he wants you to be in. Tell him you love it when he pins you to the bed. Or maybe suggest tying you to the bed. Something soft and easy for him to buy in to. I think once he sees and feels how you react to it that he will be on board to try some more. Then you can gradually introduce more into the equation. Do you guys ever sext? Try sexting with him about a fantasy like that. Seeing if you can get his anticipation up. Guide him towards the things you want because remember that he has no clue about that stuff. His ignorance and lack of openness comes from his conditioning. It’s up to you to break that and guide him. Remember that a d/s relationship also requires the sub to guide the dom in her comfort levels. You’re just unfortunately starting from zero experience.

He’s probably not going to turn into the master dom to your sub but hopefully the two of you can reach a happy middle that gives you some of that d/s experience you crave while opening up his world but still making him feel comfortable. I hope you have some success with it. I’d love to hear how it goes and if the two of you are making progress together. I’ll be sending you both some good d/s vibes!

My mood today! I want to tie you up. Bind you. Take my time and use the rough rope to bind and secure your limbs, your soft skin. The rope leaving red marks as I wrap and twist and tie. I will show you what a beautiful treasure that I think you are by decorating you, by using these hemp bonds to highlight and accentuate your beautiful curves, your delicate parts. I will use them to tease and tempt you. To bind you so that every time you strain against the bonds they will twist and pull and bind against your sensitive flesh, wheezing your breasts, rough across your nipples, pressing and grinding against your soft folds and tight ass. Let me show you how I crave and desire you. Binding you so that you are exposed to all my desires, your little holes open to my teasing, to my toying, to my using you! I will show you what a beautiful treasure I think you are and I will destroy you! Using you till you are spent, till you are sobbing and quivering and used. Every last drop of your cum mine. Every last orgasm. All mine. Just as you are all mine! And I will give you all of myself. All of my love. All of my lust. All of my cum. And I will fill you with it all! Are you ready for that, baby girl? Ready for daddy to tie you up?