Never Ever Neglect The Aftercare! It Is Easily As Important If Not More Important Than The Playtime Itself!

Do you want to play a game with daddy, baby girl? This one is deliciously fun and we can play it for hours. Daddy is going to put you on my lap and spread those pretty legs of yours. Then I’m going to tease you and edge you for hours until you are a desperate little mess for me. Are you ready for that? Your legs spread apart and pinned outside of daddy’s. Your little pussy open and exposed for me. Are you ready to feel daddy’s fingers stroking and playing with you? Pushing you closer and closer to the edge. Holding you there. Seeing just how long I can keep you there. Pulling my hand away and spanking your little pussy every time you get too close to cumming. Feeling you try to clench and close your legs, but pinning them wide as my hand smacks down, feeling your little body squirm and squeal in my arms.

Shall we play with your luscious nipples too? Daddy’s fingers stroking and teasing them. Feeling them harden at my touch. Tugging and pulling gently as you moan, your head lolling back onto my shoulder. Then gasping as I put the clamps on them. The sharp pain mixed with the pleasure as the clamps bite into your sensitive nipples. Letting them sit there bouncing and rocking as my fingers play with you, making you squirm and grind. The rocking motion sending shivers of pleasure and pain from your nipples coursing through your body. Mixing with the pleasure coming from your cunt as daddy’s fingers stroke and thrust and massage and tease you.

What a beautiful little playtoy you are! My gorgeous, sexy little girl! How I fucking love to tease and play with you. To feel you get lost in the pleasure. Daddy’s fingers driving you mad with desire. My soft words whispering in your ear as my fingers stroke and explore. Should I let you cum? How long should I edge you for? Hours I think.... maybe longer. I love how desperate and needy it makes you. I love to hear your whimpers and please for release as I deny you once again. Smacking your swollen cunt to keep you from cumming. Hmmm maybe I’ll deny you for a few days. Not giving you permission to cum. Testing you, wanting to see just how horny and desperate that will make you. We could have an edging session a couple of times a day just to make sure that you are always dripping, always close to the edge and that you always remember who owns your orgasms.

What do you think, baby girl? Do you want to play this game?

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This is a great list and so very true. You find a lot of this toxicity in Dd/lg and D/s relationships too. It is so important to establish a healthy relationship no matter what relationship type you are in. It is important that your partner is always respectful of you, your needs, your boundaries, your goals in life and that they always support your personal growth. If your partner doesn’t do this for you then you need to rethink your relationship. If you can’t do this for your partner then you need to work on your own issues and trauma first. There’s nothing cool, sexy or romantic about toxic habits. Build good relationships, respect yourself and your partner. Always!

What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture"

the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love

the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities

the idea that you should meet your partner’s every need, and if you don’t, either you’re inadequate or they’re too needy

the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else

the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity

the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship

the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on

the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life

the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself

And what makes you think I want you to behave, baby girl? I want you unable to control yourself. I want you aching for me, craving my kisses and touch. I want you unable to concentrate at work because you’re day dreaming of my hands caressing your body and driving you wild. I want your body tingling at just the thought of our making love. I want to feel your passion and need in your kisses as you walk in the door and I wrap you in my arms. I want to feel your hunger and need as you crawl across my lap and straddle me, little hands fumbling with my pants so you can finally feel me slipping inside of you. I want you misbehaving and acting out for daddy’s attention until I have to put you across my lap and spank you, before sinking my fingers inside of you and make you gasp and moan and gush for me until you can think of nothing but your need. Then taking you with all my hunger and desire for you. Making sure you feel it all. Feeling so connected to you as I slip inside of you and our energies merge and swirl together. Bodies and minds exploding with sensations, with pleasure, with such intensity. Getting lost in it all until we explode together, collapsing in a spent heap, tangled, caressing and kissing softly, deeply. No baby girl, the last thing I want is for you to behave!

I like you too much to behave ❤️

To be perfectly honest there is a high likelihood that I might pin you too them and kiss you long and hard in public too! In private I’ll do much more naughty things, and pin you to every available surface; doors, walls, countertops, tables, desks, floors, beds! 😈

Sometimes I need to mark you, baby girl! Remind you that you belong to me as I bite down on your soft flesh. My passion and desire for you building and growing until I can’t help until my need to taste and devour you and make you all mine overwhelms me and I bite down! You moan as my teeth bite into you and whimper as the pain grows and I clamp down on your soft flesh, tasting your salty skin. Your fingers stroking my hair as my rough hands claim you, cupping and gripping and squeezing. I pull my way up along your body, searching for a new piece of your delicate flesh to mark. I bite down again and you moan and squirm. Over and over I work my way across your body leaving the mark of my teeth as I go. Your body a writhing mess under me, your fingers pulling my head tight to your body as I bite down each time, craving my mark, my desire! My beautiful precious girl, sometimes I need to mark you!

Haven’t shared any of me in a long time. Just enjoying a lazy morning. Anyone want to join me? This is the first time I’ve shared since I got my sleeve done. What tattoos do you have? Share them with me. I’d love to see.

When daddy sees his baby girl looking sexy across the room and giving daddy that come fuck me smile! 😍😂😂

can i ask you for advice? if not that's okay too, i understand. but its my fourth anniversary with my bf tomorrow, and i can't help but feel depressed about it, and i can't talk to him, because he'll feel as though its a dig at him/his fault.

i was only 19 when we met, and recently turned 20 when we got together. I feel regretful (is that a word?) about entering into a relationship at that stage in my life. even though everything is swell, and the life we have is wonderful, probably what most people hope for, i mourn the life i could have had. im 24 and instead of being out with friends all the time, or working to travel and explore new things, or be in school, my life is filled with monotony. work, eat, sleep, repeat. all my money goes towards bills. all my free time goes towards cleaning and chores. which yeah i know welcome to adulthood, blah, but i never got to have an adolescence, and i don't know how to process that. im trying to get us to take trips this year, and live our lives, but he seems to be dragging his feet about it as though he doesn't really want to do anything. Which im struggling with, because im tired of doing nothing but work and chores. -❣❣❣

Thank you for the ask and I’m happy to offer what help I can. I’m sorry you are struggling with this. It’s something I can certainly sympathize with and feel very deeply about based on my own past experiences. It’s a tough situation for you and I hope sharing your struggles helps lighten them some.

So let me address this in two parts. The first I’d like to talk about is not feeling like you can bring this to your partner. It is really important to have a relationship where both partners feel they can be open and feel safe with each other. Even for the tough conversations. I think you should share your feelings with your partner but maybe phrase it terms of “Hey these are some things I really wish we would do together. Can you help me figure out how to make that happen? Do you want to share them with me?” That way you are trying to draw them in to help you succeed rather than feeling like they are the roadblock. It can be tricky to do but give it some thought and maybe try it. If you don’t think that will work or that they will take it as a personal attack either way then I think you have some relationship issues that go even deeper and you should consider if there is a way to heal those or if it is salvageable. I know it can be really hard to talk about these things but sometimes it’s better than letting it all fester and seethe under the surface. That just leads to an even more unhealthy relationship. And if you can’t work through that stuff together then it might be time for you both to follow your own new paths separately. Does that make sense?

So now let me get to the part about you feeling regretful about your relationship and how it has impacted your life. You are so young and should be able to go out and travel and live your life as you desire. Find your passion and focus on that. Don’t let life suck you in to the never ending cycle of work sleep repeat. There is so much more to life than that and you need to find and follow the path that speaks to your heart. What are you passionate about? What do you wish you could spend your time on? That’s where you should focus. And honestly your partner should want that for you and you should want that for them. The challenge can sometimes be that you and your partner have completely different interests and desires. If that’s the case then you have to be ok with doing completely different things separately. That takes trust and if you don’t have that then it’s really hard because partners can get jealous and feel left out, etc. You honestly have to love yourself and be secure in yourself for that to work well and most people aren’t. So I’d say give it a test run, come up with a plan, a short day trip or something. Present it to your partner and if your partner doesn’t want to come then say ok, that’s fine, you don’t have to go but this is something I need to do for me. Take the trip and see how you both handle it. You may have to reassure them that you love them and that this is for you. But hopefully they will be supportive. If they aren’t, if they try to undermine your plans, express jealousy, or other negative reactions then you need to take a hard look at the relationship and decide if this is what you want for yourself.

I know I’m getting long winded here but I think it’s a really important thing you are facing. Relationships should be mutually supportive. You are there to help each other succeed. You should want to help each other grow and learn and embrace life. We each have our own paths to follow in life. When we find a partner we hope that we will share our paths but that isn’t always the case. Our paths may only be shared briefly, or they could be for years. I think it’s important to accept that as we grow and learn we also change. And sometimes we change in ways that take us away from our partner. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. It’s a part of life and ultimately you have to focus on your own growth and learning and change. You shouldn’t sacrifice your own dreams and desires for the sake of your partner and they should never want you too. Maybe try having a discussion with your partner about what their dreams or goals are. Do they have a bucket list? Can you find some common ground in shared things you want to do and can discussing them motivate your partner to take action and do them with you. If that doesn’t work then I think you still need to pursue your own dreams and desires either way. Take charge of your life and move it in the direction you want it to go. You don’t want to look back in 20, 30,40 years and regret the trips you didn’t take. Hopefully your partner will embrace that and support you and if not then you really need to consider if they are the right partner for you. And don’t forget to give them the same opportunities you want for yourself. Hopefully you can both grow together and if not then don’t let them hold you back from living the life you desire.

I hope all this makes sense and helps some. You are welcome to message me anytime, anon or not. Sometimes we just need a friend to talk with. In the meantime I’m sending you lots of love and good energy!

This is where you belong, baby girl! Curled up in daddy’s lap. Giving me your sweet cuddles. You are my beautiful girl, my precious girl! You are always safe in daddy’s arms. I need your cuddles just as much as you need daddy’s. You bring me such happiness, such contentment, such peace. All my worries and stress of the day melt away when you are in my arms. I forget all my troubles and the world melts away except for you. This is where you belong, baby girl, and I need you just as much as you need me!