Your Hands Feel So Little And Petite In My Big, Strong Ones! You Are Daddy’s Delicate Little Flower!

Hello, first of all I want to tell you that I love what you write, and that has made me curious about the Daddy/littlegirl dynamic. Could you explain to me better what that type of relationship is like?

Thank you 💞

G.

Hi there and thank you for the ask. I’m glad you enjoy my posts and your question is a good one but it will take a bit to explain.

So the short answer is that a daddy (or mommy)/ little dynamic boils down to a daddy that takes care of his little in what ever way they need to feel safe and have their needs met. I use gender neutral because you can have daddy’s or mommy’s, baby girls or baby boys, in most any combination. It’s really about a caregiver taking care of their little. Defining the dynamic is really a whole spectrum that is based on the wants and needs of each partner in the dynamic. Some may be as simple as a daddy who just spoils and takes care of his baby girl in basic ways. Or they could involve age play where the little likes to age regress to their preferred age and the daddy treats them as that age and cares for them while they are in “little space”. They could age play a teen, a young child, toddler, whatever fits their needs to be cared. Please note that age play is and should in no way be sexualized. It is the daddy giving their little a safe space to let go psychologically and behave as they feel they need too. There are also some aspects of a daddy/little dynamic that are very similar to dom / submissive dynamic. I would classify the daddy/little dynamic as a subset of the D/s dynamic or at least adjacent too. Daddy’s would typically be classified as soft doms that can be disciplinary but are typically supportive caregivers that have limited rules and often have d/s play when sharing sex together with their littles. Again it’s all a spectrum that can run from harder to softer play, differing levels of support, levels of play. The most important part is that the daddy is the protector and caregiver of the little. The daddy has to earn the trust of their little for the little to feel safe enough and loved enough to submit or give them self to their daddy. It’s a very vulnerable position and requires a lot of trust and a daddy that is focused on their littles safety and loving them. As long as that is being met and respected then the rest is really wide open to what the partners want the relationship to be. It’s all about trust and love.

As a warning though, just like in d/s relationships you have to super careful of who you choose to be your daddy or mommy. They have to earn the privilege of being your caregiver by showing you that they will protect you, keep you safe and full of love. If you ever find a partner that demands your submission in any way without having earned it then you should run away! That is a huge red flag and can lead to abusive relationships if you’re not careful.

If you do find a partner you want to explore this with don’t be shy about exploring new things, finding the right balance that is fun and supportive for the both of you. It can be a really fulfilling type of relationship as long as you communicate and share and are open with each other.

I hope that helps explain it a little bit. I’d be happy to answer more specific questions if you have them. You’re welcome to ask anonymously or dm me directly.

There are things more intimate than sex. There is the soft embrace of shared love. The feeling of safety and peace that comes when you are wrapped in your lovers arms, feeling the warmth of their body, the weight of them against you, the beat of their heart and rise and fall of their chest. There is the soft caress or your lover as they trace the curves and lines of your body. Absently exploring you, simply touching you, that intimate soft caress that wipes your mind of all stress and fears, that quieting touching that you can get lost in. Your mind silenced as you lay together quietly. There is the feel of fingers through your hair, caressing, tangling and playing lightly. There are those simple quiet moments in the dark of night or dawn of the morning, when the world is still and you two are the only ones in it. When the soft sighs of a sleeping lover or the look of peace on their face brings you closer together than any act of sex ever could. Those are the moments I want to share with you.

Firstly you are a handsome man. But your words truly touch my mind and I enjoy reading your post regularly 🙈❤️

Awww!! Thank you! 😊 You are so sweet! I’m so glad you enjoy my stories and posts! I’ll try to keep them coming!

Both is what I want. My mind spinning with desire as I look at you. Aching to know everything there is to know about you. Aching to explore and devour you. Aching to take you apart, to break you down to your most basic, your truest self with every caress, every touch, every kiss, every thrust. We will have both. I promise! The talks, long and deep, soft and sweet. And I will devour you, use you, take you for all mine until every secret is exposed, every desire. They will all come in time. Each of these. All of these. With you, my precious girl! Only you! All you!

Don’t hide it! Fucking embrace it! Own it! Now show me, baby girl! Share it all with me! I want to know every fucking fantasy you have! I want all the darkest, deepest, naughtiest ones that you have been afraid to share with anyone else! Let me be your safe space, baby girl! That one person you never have to be shy with, that you never have to hide your true self from! You know daddy loves and accepts you for who you are! That I embrace all you are and want to know you like no one else! Don’t hide it, baby girl! Share it all with me and I will share everything with you!

Truth!!! Show me those curves, those luscious thighs! Show me the real you! Show me that sexy attitude, that sense of humor! Show me what a naughty, hungry little thing you! Let me hear those desires and fantasies! Share those insecurities and worries! Those fears and misgivings! I want it all, baby girl! I want the real you! Not the one you show to the rest of the world! That brave face, that protected heart! I want the one you keep hidden! The one you protect! I will cherish her, protect her and keep her safe! Let me see that side of you! That’s what I want, baby girl! Will you?

Keeping it real...

can i ask you for advice? if not that's okay too, i understand. but its my fourth anniversary with my bf tomorrow, and i can't help but feel depressed about it, and i can't talk to him, because he'll feel as though its a dig at him/his fault.

i was only 19 when we met, and recently turned 20 when we got together. I feel regretful (is that a word?) about entering into a relationship at that stage in my life. even though everything is swell, and the life we have is wonderful, probably what most people hope for, i mourn the life i could have had. im 24 and instead of being out with friends all the time, or working to travel and explore new things, or be in school, my life is filled with monotony. work, eat, sleep, repeat. all my money goes towards bills. all my free time goes towards cleaning and chores. which yeah i know welcome to adulthood, blah, but i never got to have an adolescence, and i don't know how to process that. im trying to get us to take trips this year, and live our lives, but he seems to be dragging his feet about it as though he doesn't really want to do anything. Which im struggling with, because im tired of doing nothing but work and chores. -❣❣❣

Thank you for the ask and I’m happy to offer what help I can. I’m sorry you are struggling with this. It’s something I can certainly sympathize with and feel very deeply about based on my own past experiences. It’s a tough situation for you and I hope sharing your struggles helps lighten them some.

So let me address this in two parts. The first I’d like to talk about is not feeling like you can bring this to your partner. It is really important to have a relationship where both partners feel they can be open and feel safe with each other. Even for the tough conversations. I think you should share your feelings with your partner but maybe phrase it terms of “Hey these are some things I really wish we would do together. Can you help me figure out how to make that happen? Do you want to share them with me?” That way you are trying to draw them in to help you succeed rather than feeling like they are the roadblock. It can be tricky to do but give it some thought and maybe try it. If you don’t think that will work or that they will take it as a personal attack either way then I think you have some relationship issues that go even deeper and you should consider if there is a way to heal those or if it is salvageable. I know it can be really hard to talk about these things but sometimes it’s better than letting it all fester and seethe under the surface. That just leads to an even more unhealthy relationship. And if you can’t work through that stuff together then it might be time for you both to follow your own new paths separately. Does that make sense?

So now let me get to the part about you feeling regretful about your relationship and how it has impacted your life. You are so young and should be able to go out and travel and live your life as you desire. Find your passion and focus on that. Don’t let life suck you in to the never ending cycle of work sleep repeat. There is so much more to life than that and you need to find and follow the path that speaks to your heart. What are you passionate about? What do you wish you could spend your time on? That’s where you should focus. And honestly your partner should want that for you and you should want that for them. The challenge can sometimes be that you and your partner have completely different interests and desires. If that’s the case then you have to be ok with doing completely different things separately. That takes trust and if you don’t have that then it’s really hard because partners can get jealous and feel left out, etc. You honestly have to love yourself and be secure in yourself for that to work well and most people aren’t. So I’d say give it a test run, come up with a plan, a short day trip or something. Present it to your partner and if your partner doesn’t want to come then say ok, that’s fine, you don’t have to go but this is something I need to do for me. Take the trip and see how you both handle it. You may have to reassure them that you love them and that this is for you. But hopefully they will be supportive. If they aren’t, if they try to undermine your plans, express jealousy, or other negative reactions then you need to take a hard look at the relationship and decide if this is what you want for yourself.

I know I’m getting long winded here but I think it’s a really important thing you are facing. Relationships should be mutually supportive. You are there to help each other succeed. You should want to help each other grow and learn and embrace life. We each have our own paths to follow in life. When we find a partner we hope that we will share our paths but that isn’t always the case. Our paths may only be shared briefly, or they could be for years. I think it’s important to accept that as we grow and learn we also change. And sometimes we change in ways that take us away from our partner. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. It’s a part of life and ultimately you have to focus on your own growth and learning and change. You shouldn’t sacrifice your own dreams and desires for the sake of your partner and they should never want you too. Maybe try having a discussion with your partner about what their dreams or goals are. Do they have a bucket list? Can you find some common ground in shared things you want to do and can discussing them motivate your partner to take action and do them with you. If that doesn’t work then I think you still need to pursue your own dreams and desires either way. Take charge of your life and move it in the direction you want it to go. You don’t want to look back in 20, 30,40 years and regret the trips you didn’t take. Hopefully your partner will embrace that and support you and if not then you really need to consider if they are the right partner for you. And don’t forget to give them the same opportunities you want for yourself. Hopefully you can both grow together and if not then don’t let them hold you back from living the life you desire.

I hope all this makes sense and helps some. You are welcome to message me anytime, anon or not. Sometimes we just need a friend to talk with. In the meantime I’m sending you lots of love and good energy!

Let me get lost with you in that silence. Just the two of us. Exploring, consuming, giving and sharing ourselves together. Let me consume you here. Let me devour you. Let me explore you. Let my lips and tongue taste every luscious inch of you, the saltiness of your skin, the sweetness of your nectar. Let my hands caress you and explore your curves. Let them sink within your folds and make you gasp and writhe with pleasure. Let me feel you quiver under my touch, melting against me, clinging to me and clutching as I claim you. Let me hear your moans and gasps and the need in your whispered words. Let me give myself to you just as you give yourself to me. Let me share my soul with you. Let my soul brush up against yours, entwine with yours as our bodies entwine. Let me feel the depths of you, exposed and open to me as I fill those depths and you fill mine. Our souls entangled, desires and needs meeting and feeding off of one another. Expanding and contracting and exploding together until the world is but a dim mist around our singular existence.

Stay right here with me...where the world isn't so loud and our souls can be consumed by one another time and time again...~B.M. 💜🖤